Gentlemen only...what makes a woman sexy in your eyes? What if she's very overweight? Skinny? Poor? Below average looks?

Asked By: wwhirlygirl 41-45, F 9 months ago

Posted by DanDareUS 1 Sep 10th, 2012 at 10:03AM

its the complete person ... the look in her eyes, her smile, attitude, personality, how her body curves (not how thin or fat she is)

Reply by wwhirlygirl Sep 10th, 2012 at 10:10AM

...yes..my point exactly..trying to prove a point to a girlfriend of mine..confidence, humor, responsibility, dedication, self worth, lack of arrogance..gratitude, and a little sass.. which reverts back to confidence and knowing your self worth..but because she is a larger woman, she thinks its the weight that turns the men away.
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Reply by califdom Sep 10th, 2012 at 10:53AM

I would suggest that you tell her to stop paying to the glamour mags, that make it seem that women arent attractive unless they have the body of a prepubesant boy.
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5 Answers to "Gentlemen only...what makes a woman sexy in your eyes? What if she's very overweight? Skinny? Poor? Below average looks?"

Posted by hertoy Sep 10th, 2012 at 10:32AM

I work with a young 25 year old woman and she is beautiful and very sexy, even though she is 5'8" and 250 pounds or so. She's sweet, super smart, very witty, self confident, dresses and acts feminine, and loves being female.

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Posted by califdom Sep 10th, 2012 at 10:12AM

Brains and ability or willingness to help. If I am working on a car and am having trouble, a girl would be very sexy if she ran into the house put on an old T and jeans and dove in under the car with me to help. Thats HOT

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Posted by cpgnatly Jan 23rd, 2013 at 11:23AM

Take care of yourself. Whatever nature gave you, take care of it and you'll be sexy.

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Posted by lickitysplit Sep 10th, 2012 at 5:10PM

For me, it always has been the total package, with her mind being the most important -- intelligence, humor, conversational ability, personality, etc.

I had girlfriends who were pretty much across the weight spectrum and across the breast spectrum, but it was always the non-physical attributes that got me.

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