Getting over him.. and feeling used etc. help?

he doesnt want me. five different people told him that i was apparently holding hands with someone else in college.. not true.. but he said he didnt feel a thing when he was told.
now i just feel used. he's kept me hanging on for the last week, i got my hopes now. now im upset, angry.. i dont have many friends or hobbies. wouldn't know where to start. what do i do?

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Get some friends and some hobbies so you never think you need someone like that in your life again.

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MySweetSong	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 4:46PM Yea, get some friends and have fun. Throw away his stuff and everything that reminds you of him (if you can sell them, even better) :D Rated: +1Vote for this!
smilepowder	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 4:28PM First sorry for the space where you are in right now, reality can be a dream crusher at times. And this can be an unpleasant time, now for the good aspect of it: it is a potential growth opportunity. It is time to listen to the whole person that you are, not just the voice that kept telling you about him. Listen and then act, go for what you want and be yourself. A long journey starts with a step. Good luck. :) ps: if that helps for a while tell yourself that he does not deserve you (make sure not to do it for too long) Rated: +1Vote for this!
missmadam	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 4:34PM Enjoy yourself..or at least pretend to..best way to FORGET he ever existed.. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Vermillion44863	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 4:37PM I wouldn't suggest this but each time a guy has screwed me over I've gotten revenge in some form of another. An eye for an eye doesn't solve anything but it sure made me feel damn good and was way easier to let go of him afterwards. If a person is gonna throw **** at me, he can't expect not to get some on himself. Rated: +1Vote for this!
NaomiZero	Posted Jun 14th, 2009 at 4:14PM what i meant to say is: nyxie is wise. you have to be yourself independently first and foremost. always Rated: +1Vote for this!

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