Telling someone to be theirselves can sometimes be the worst advice given...... just saying!
Then it's not being themselves it's changing them because everyone has a problem with their meanness!
Being mean has nothing to do with their maturity level! Maybe their tolerance level but not maturity!
Thats what I've been doing...
YA :BOY ? if your one of my old buddies you know that means damn straight . it's also little joke to help people be happy in times of depression or anger cause I say it funny to make them happy ; 3