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Girls? You like this guy! He just doesn't get it. It's 2012. YOU can be assertive! Would you ask him out? Why or not?

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    getouttamylife - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by getouttamylife Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:35PM

    i dont think ive ever been asked out by a guy. ive always had to do it. lol

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  1. Sparrowhawk1161 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Sparrowhawk1161 Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:41PM

    I think it's about time don't you think?

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  2. drippy72 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by drippy72 Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:51PM

    i would ask you out!! xx

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7 Answers to "Girls? You like this guy! He just doesn't get it. It's 2012. YOU can be assertive! Would you ask him out? Why or not?"

  1. lonelyheart807 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by lonelyheart807 Nov 19th, 2012 at 11:23PM

    No, because in my case the guy is with someone else (and he's gay). So being assertive would spoil any chance at friendship...

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  2. fragments - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by fragments Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:43PM

    If I were single, and I liked the guy then yes I'd ask him out.

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  3. TheBlessedOne - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by TheBlessedOne Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:39PM

    If he is not interested enough in me to ask me, I sure am not going to reach out to him.

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  4. Sparrowhawk1161 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Sparrowhawk1161 Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:41PM

    OK.

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  5. Sparrowhawk1161 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Sparrowhawk1161 Nov 14th, 2012 at 8:18PM

    What if he was very shy? He really likes you. But, he is afraid you might not like him. He is the sensative type. He really only wants to get into relationship if he believes it really would work. Yet, he has doubts you might not really like him. So, he passes you by... even though all his instincts says he really should ask you out. He might want to ask you, but he is afraid of getting hurt, because he's the type who would stick to it. He would, if he feels safe, actually commit to actually knowing you, not foresaking you. It's his own sensativity that get's in the way, because his own sensativity is what allows him to actually look for something in a relationship beyond just a casual aquaitance. He's interested... but just sensative enough to be boyfriend material and frightened of heartache...

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  6. JustPlainBarb - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by JustPlainBarb Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:35PM

    If I were single .. and saw a man I was attracted to .. I would ask him out.

    It's not the dark ages anymore .. AND, I think a man who is right for me would appreciate that.

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  7. toughchick - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by toughchick Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:35PM

    If he was interested he would let you know...

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  8. Sparrowhawk1161 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Sparrowhawk1161 Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:43PM

    What if he was so shy, that he didn't think you might be interested? What if his sensativity meant boyfriend matterial?

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  9. toughchick - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by toughchick Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:44PM

    shy or not, guys will let you know

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  10. MadamElle - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by MadamElle Nov 14th, 2012 at 7:35PM

    Sure, why not.

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