I have always liked nice guys.... even as a little girl. My problem has been dating nice guys who became bitter, suspicious guys who had a lot of baggage after having their hearts broken by the girls who preferred bad boys. They each ended up destroying the relationship with their insecurity.<br />
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I really don't know why some girls like bad boys, but many of us would like nothing better than a nice, sweet guy. Don't let bad experiences ruin you for the girls out there who are looking for a guy just like you! {{Hug}}

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I can actually give some good insight to this question, having once been a girl who was attracted to "bad boys" or guys that didn't treat me so well. To fully understand why a lot of girls seem to be more attracted to the bad guy vs. the good guy, you have to understand the pschological side to it. First remember, everything stems from childhood. We are usually most attracted to people who have some kind of trait that seems "familiar" to us---whether this is a good or bad trait. For example, I once had a boyfriend who ignored me a lot, stood me up on dates, put me last, etc. When I was a kid, my father was the same way, never paid much attention to me. So SUBCONCIOUSLY I was attracted to the jerky boyfriend who did the same thing. And it was more of a challenge (and also more intense, yet unhealthy feelings) to be with him than it would have been to be with a nice normal guy who treated me right. After doing much research on this topic, I'm happy to say I don't even give those kinds of guys the time of day anymore. It took a lot of personal growth on my part to figure out WHY I was always drawn to the bad guys. I hope that helped to answer your question!

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Honestly, I think it has to do with human nature. A long time ago, a woman didn't choose a guy because he was 'nice.' She seeked out a strong, fearless hunter..a man who she knew could protect her and her offspring. The old saying that kindness portrays weakness is a sad but true fact(IMHO). My friend and I were discussing this very issue the other day...we concluded that most women do find the *** holes very attractive, and then they get resentful as the relationship runs its course that he is not more sensitive! I think women are very confused about what they want, because what is important to us changed, as times changed. Maybe you should try being more of an *** hole to attract her, and then showing your softer side later. She will get the best of both worlds, I don't see how you could go wrong! Good luck to you.

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Nope good guys don't finish last, you just have to realize there are two types of people in this world. Givers and Takers. Sounds like you are a Giver and matching yourself up with Takers. This bad new because they will such you dry. You have to find yourself another Giver and then you will be fine and finish first.

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Good guys finish first in my book . The problem is when you look high and low for the good guys all you find are the losers at least that my story :(

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I prefer the nice guy. ******* have a good chance of pushing the physical abuse limit and relationships should not be founded on negativity.

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well, I don't know about other woman. but I was too afraid to ditch the ******* I called my man. It took him going to jail and a whole year! for me to realize he can't hurt me anymore..

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Good guys don't finish last. Boring guys finish last. ******** seem to have "more going on" then the "nice guy" in the corner.

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who cares if you finish last. at least you are not an *******<br />
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I still prefer good guys r nice guys... and I'm glad to hear there are nice guys here like you?! lol <br />
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well, i hope you "nice guys" are not cunning. Not pretentious like you are nice at first and at the end showing the real you... <br />
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it is really hard to find nice men.....yeah, and do they really exist? sorry lol

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Of course good guys finish last.. But could you actually live with yourself knowing you were a bad guy? I dont think i could so i try to walk the straight line..

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Yes, I can say I was attracted to the ******** ***Hanging my head in shame*** However, someone said it correctly its familiar to us they way we grew -up. we as kids see the way parents treat each other and we see it as normal.<br />
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This futher from the truth as we learn the healthy way.<br />
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Now, I know what love is and it someone that cares and not belittles you, or someone that support you in what you believe and your dreams. Not some ********** that is a controll freak and stalks you and calls you names and hits you in front your kids. (recipe for a murder to happen!<br />
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I personally know that I want a good guy and if I can't find well no big deal to me due the fact my kids and I have been through way to much bullshit .

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SO.....................What was the Question?

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It is your men's misinterpretations only. Everybody wants to be treated good, of course. <br />
I so much wonder when I read online or offline "guides" for men how to worst treat a woman so they can have her or achieve something with her. <br />
WHO writes SUCH "GUIDES"?? <br />
Men who want to mistreat women only. <br />
Not anybody else. <br />
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Girls prefer a nice guy, but nice guys DO NOT EXIST.

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