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Guy asks you out over text messages...says he'll call to confirm time and place but sends another text message @ 9pm...

Would you respond to the text message? The guy is my age. And people were hounding me... I'm assuming him too... to go out. I said yes so they'd shut up... but I'm really annoyed this was done all through text messages. Is this normal?

Update: am going through with it but I just want to know what this registers as on the lame scale :P

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8 Answers to "Guy asks you out over text messages...says he'll call to confirm time and place but sends another text message @ 9pm..."

  1. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MikeWinther Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:39PM

    I am redneck.. AND old school. I call personally.. but my way is going the way off the Dodo bird

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  2. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:41PM

    LOL

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  3. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:56PM

    Yep. Skype dating. Coming to a tablet near you. :P

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  4. Katia8765 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Katia8765 Feb 29th, 2012 at 3:59PM

    i have the same problem also he never paid for my dinned when he asked me out..and he is 34!!!

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  5. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Feb 29th, 2012 at 6:08PM

    Wow. It's time to put an end to those text IMHO :P LOL Sure doesn't make ya feel special does it? :/

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  6. Katia8765 - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Katia8765 Mar 1st, 2012 at 4:32AM

    Not really....I am not going to go out with him again :)...He has to grow up and I am not his mother :p

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  7. BbyGrlPickles - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by BbyGrlPickles Feb 1st, 2012 at 12:37AM

    I actually met the love of my life through texting. Kinda. My best friend was dating his cousin, and she noticed he was single and gave him my cell number and his to me. 6 years (on and off due to work and drama) were still going lol

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  8. toughchick - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by toughchick Dec 3rd, 2011 at 10:22PM

    He is too young to date...

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  9. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 10:26PM

    are you saying I am too?

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  10. BlackToad - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by BlackToad Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:43PM

    Maybe he's a little shy. Go in with an open mind, no pressure. There is no such thing as normal anyway. Now, go out and have a good time. :)

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  11. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:45PM

    I will try ;) Cause there is no way I can really get out of it. heh. I'll just have to go later on.

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  12. Cosreal - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Cosreal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:42PM

    eh. you know what... Go for it.. hell explain this [what you just said] to him... maybe he'll get a kick out of it cause ur actually right and he is being pressured... be real and honest and just go to hang out and you both might actually have a good time. :] like when people were kids..

    why is dating so hard people!? does no one remember being a kid? you just walked up to someone and said hi.. my name is blah blah blah .. i like your.. thing/jacket/backpack whatever.. wanna play?

    just like that.. cept grown up stuff lol

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  13. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:42PM

    OK. I might be less angry by morning... nothing wrong with making him wait until then for a response right?

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  14. Cosreal - female

    Reply by Cosreal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:43PM

    isn't that playing games? do you really wanna play games?

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  15. DeathOfCuHullian - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by DeathOfCuHullian Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:39PM

    Who said romance was dead!

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  16. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:41PM

    Oh yes.. I am swooning

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  17. CVizion - 70+ years old

    Posted by CVizion Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:38PM

    It takes NO GUTS at all for a guy to ask a girl out on a date via text message.... this is so lame... male kind should be ashamed. :(

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  18. fancygal - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by fancygal Dec 3rd, 2011 at 9:39PM

    That's what I thought! I am also wondering if he really wants to or is just being pressured by outside forces. heh. At any rate... not feeling special over here. Thanks for the answer :)

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