Guy likes me & flirts and doesn't know I have a boyfriend. It's bothering me but I'm not exactly sure what to do. Help?
I have absolutely NO feelings for this guy and would never even have thought about talking to him before he talked to me. I feel rude if I don't acknowledge him though.
He didn't TELL me he likes me but it's honestly very obvious. He's acting like a first grader who likes a girl who ate glue with him at school. Today was the first time I actually had a conversation with him and I absolutely hated it. I was nervous because I didn't like the position I was in at all! So I felt really dizzy and sweaty and got red. I told him I feel weird and he said "It's because of the awesome connection between us." and me not knowing what to say just laughed.
He constantly asked me if I wanted a hug and NO I DO NOT WANT A HUG! I don't know how or where in this conversation to say, "Hey dude I've got a boyfriend." and it'd be awkward if I did it in the middle of all this.
So I'm really not looking forward to school now because of this.
Someone please tell me what to do; this is unbearable for me.
13 Answers to "Guy likes me & flirts and doesn't know I have a boyfriend. It's bothering me but I'm not exactly sure what to do. Help?"
Posted by Man01 Jan 1st, 2013 at 11:26AM
Plain and Simple, the next time you see him, say how you and your boyfriend had a great time hanging out last night and how you are so lucky to have a guy as sweet as him. If he does not get a clue after that then that is when you could start doing the things that the other posters are telling you to do.
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Posted by benetal Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:54PM
Dear,you must learn to speak up in life.Tell him pleasantly, you are not available. If he doesn't back off immediately,have your boyfriend tell him you are not available.
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:54PM
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Posted by violet1698 Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:43PM
just tell him, it will look like you are leading him on if you don't tell him the truth.
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:47PM
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Posted by hitoribochi89 Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:48PM
There's never really a good timing, so the first thing you do when you see him next is go "Let me just break it down for ya, I got a boyfriend so you best be moving along" and, walk away. Awkwardness *poof*
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:52PM
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Posted by Vessa Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:45PM
That's kind of silly. Why has the cat got your tongue about your boyfriend.
ANY point in the conversation would be fine...."No...I don't hug any guys other than my boyfriend." "Nice to see you...do you know my boyfriend, _________?" When he compliments you, say, "Yeah, my boyfriend likes that too." Or better yet, say, "Did you go to the game last night? I went with my boyfriend. It was fun wasn't it?"
Pretend you have no idea that he likes you. And just let him know. There are a zillion ways. But if you don't let the poor guy know, you are probably going to end up having to hurt his feelings and embarrassing him. Don't do that. Don't wait.
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:47PM
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Reply by Vessa Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:51PM
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Posted by hlkhw Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:43PM
Be blunt, don't worry about awkwardness. Just say you're not digging the vibe and walk away.
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:48PM
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Reply by hlkhw Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:49PM
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Posted by Zenyatta2010 Mar 4th, 2013 at 7:14PM
SIMPLE...
"umm....dont get me wrong, but you seem like your flirting, and just so you know I have a boyfriend."
then he would say something like "oh, im sorry. i didnt know."
then YOU say "haha yeah he wouldnt be too happy if he knew I was talking to someone that was flirting with me."
So yeah...just tell him you have a BF. It doesnt matter if its right in the middle of a Conversation,etc. When he starts flirting or says he wants a hug, tell him you have a BF.
Whats so hard???? NOTHING- Your just a little nervous, perhaps shy? =)
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Posted by magicdust Feb 7th, 2013 at 11:41PM
You already know what to do.
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Posted by Gray51 Dec 3rd, 2012 at 9:12PM
Since you can't tell him to bug off, do you think that you might like the attention coming from him?
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 9:17PM
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Posted by Kayakker Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:43PM
Tell him the truth best option...
HEY DUDE BACK OFF I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP... BUT YOUR CUTE KEEP TRYING...:p
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:48PM
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Reply by Kayakker Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:55PM
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Posted by grayday104 Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:42PM
Just brush it off
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:45PM
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Posted by BlackToad Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:42PM
Take out your phone and say your bf just texted you ir something. Let him down easy.
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:44PM
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Posted by wolflionheart Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:42PM
tell him to knock it off ... if its online block him, if its live, ignore him and dont let him flirt
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Reply by JuPeach Dec 3rd, 2012 at 8:44PM
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