HOLD IT RIGHT THERE, MISSY.....!!!!
Before you go any further there are questions you need to ask yourself...
1. are you only considering sex because you feel like the oldest virgin on the block?
2. You feel you are missing out on all the fun?
3. You think that woman are put on this planet just to please men...?
if the answer is YES to even ONE of those questions, you are considering sex for the wrong reasons...
You have a responsibility to yourself to keep yourself safe.. physically and emotionally and you wont be doing that if you have casual sex just for the sake of it. You know that you should wait until someone worthy of you comes along and even then, you know you should wait until you know each other well enough to be sure its the right thing to do for both of you.. Let your conscience and your integrity guide you, NOT your hormones or a misconception that guys may like girls who know more..
Believe me, they DON'T! A girl who doesnt give herself away is far more challenging than a girl who has been around the block.. he will always be wondering how many other guys you gave it away easily to....
A girl who makes smart decisions is most appealing.
The girl with the best personality. Virgin or not if you're a *****, nothing can make up for that imho.
Alice -- I can only answer from my own perspective, of course, but I don't think you're missing out on anything. In time, you will discover all that you're meant to.
"Experience" does not necessitate that you give yourself to just any man, that you engage in sex, nor that you remain ignorant (or "innocent" as you say). Knowledge does not necessarily mean doing, either.
Think before you do anything with anyone. I can tell you from experience, a man -- particularly a man who has been where you are now, prefers to be with a thoughtful, careful and confident young woman who has waited to give herself to him -- but not waited ignorantly -- prepared thoughtfully.
LOVE the man you give yourself to. Give him yourself -- your best self. You will ALWAYS be happier for that -- and he will too.
very well said!
Virgins are tough thing to come by. Most slack-off guys want someone with experience, but for myself, I'd date the virgin for the sexually active. By "dating" I mean not in any sort of sexual manner either. I just don't trust them.
Don't feel embarassed, if anything, embrace it, you make yourself unique by saving it for someone special not spreading it to Tom, **** and Harry, save it for someone you will never regret losing it to even if you guys fall apart.
Don't give it away....save it for someone who loves you...
You won't feel that way when your heart is broken and you are feeling used. Not worth it.
I am not a fan of virgin women.Rather not be a woman's first
Not at all