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Guys : Is being a nice girl such a turn off? How come bad girls usually gets what they want and leave nice girls behind?

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  1. FallenAngelWOOT - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FallenAngelWOOT Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:04PM

    I think many guys would ask the same question reversed. I think men do like nice girls but it can be scarier for them to work out if nice girls are interested. Bad girls tend to make it easy for a man. Prob best to be a little of both imo. :)

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  2. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by fakeola Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:12PM

    Its not scary, just very difficult and time consuming to work out if girls are interested. Why does it put girls off if we just ask straight up and honest? I can say from experience of myself and friends that men are absolutely not like this... its very attractive when women don't play the bs game we usually get enforced on us.

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  3. Expressyvist - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Expressyvist Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:22PM

    I know the feeling.... bS game sucks.. I think it's a game not mature people wanna play... I don't know... why play? what for?

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  4. CeriB - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by CeriB Jan 3rd, 2013 at 4:02PM

    Just because bad girls get what they want, doesn't mean that what they want is right and going to last. It just may seem to you that way. For example: you liked a guy and he ended up going with "the bad girl" back home. Doesn't it say more that the guy wasn't just right for you? That he really did want just some fun and the "bad girl" was the easier choice.

    A man always wants something. Always. And when it comes to women, that plan is always to find out two things: if a woman willing to sleep with him AND if she is, how much it will cost to get her to sleep with him.

    What I am trying to say is, that just because you are a nice girl, doesn't mean you can't go for the guy you like. It's not about showing your boobs too much or taking your pants down straight on the first date, but it's taking control and showing the guy that you are interested in them, but at the same time show him that you have requirements - that you need his time, his respect and his attention. And if he doesn't respect your requirements... is he really the guy you want? Let the "bad girl" have him then.

    Read a book by Steve Harvey "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man"

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  5. Treyt - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Treyt Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:30PM

    I think it depends, if you're trying to attract nice guys you should be a nice girl, but do you really want a nice guy. Many of them are too nice. It depends if you're in the middle, which is best, depending on who you are. Too nice girls get overlooked sometimes by the guy who only wants one thing. But when nice girls go to college or just become.an adult, things may change in the real dating world. But if you wanna party and have fun and be with the hot guy, you should be in the middle.

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  6. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by fakeola Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:14PM

    Guys tend to prefer nice girls.

    The stereotypical "bad girl" is usually quite offputting - if she is getting any better treatment it is probably because she perceived as being more likely to be a ****, and lots of guys are out for sex. Those guys are not looking for nice girls because they want someone to have sex with and throw away afterwards.... don't be jealous of that.

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  7. AngeredBlizzards - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by AngeredBlizzards Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:06PM

    because ''bad girls'' make guys turned on and stuff, ''nice girls'' are just layed back people who aren't ******* b!tchs, and i am a nice girl, i am layed back and mellow ;) well, when i want to be,

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  8. Treyt - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by Treyt Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:11PM

    I'd, well you know.

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  9. AngeredBlizzards - 13-15 years old - female

    Reply by AngeredBlizzards Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:14PM

    i'm 13, i don't understand you Ep people,

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  10. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by DozerDan Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:04PM

    Someone is using a wrong definition of "nice" and "bad."

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  11. AllStarcrushNate - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by AllStarcrushNate Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:03PM

    Wtf! Nice girls a turn off? I don't want any other kind BUT nice girls!

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  12. kyddreamer - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by kyddreamer Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:02PM

    I prefer nice girls , don't worry be yourself. they right guy will come along

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  13. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Posted by SilenceEvermore Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:01PM

    Bad girls are probably easier to get into bed.

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  14. ridgern - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by ridgern Jun 10th, 2013 at 6:24PM

    When you say bad, are you talking mean, or slutty?

    If you mean good as in nice, kind , sweet, I much prefer those. If you mean good as chaste, they make fine friends, but GF not so much, unless the guy is 13.

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  15. cuddlybear - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by cuddlybear Jan 3rd, 2013 at 4:41PM

    I find nice girls to be a huge turn on.

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  16. honeypie29 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by honeypie29 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:22PM

    Nice, wimpy guys like a bad girl. Dominant men prefer nice girls. wtf are u talking about?

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  17. Treyt - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by Treyt Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:31PM

    Difference between dominat and bad.

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  18. oddlyenuff - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by oddlyenuff Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:21PM

    I'll take the nice girl who's really bad!!!!

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  19. staire - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by staire Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:04PM

    give me a nice women any day,gems like you are hard to find

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  20. winterdust - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by winterdust Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:04PM

    that's exactly how I feel too Expressyvist !

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  21. Expressyvist - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Expressyvist Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:12PM

    I think p9ecful is right. Nice should be properly defined. I read this book my Sherry Archov (not sure of the spelling of her family name) ... Bad girls are those girls that are not defined in a wrong perspective. Confident women! knows how to trash and doesnt allow bullSh*tting!!! :D I think the prob with us women is when we really like someone we work our best foot forward. It's difficult to say no, we allow things which we don't like cause we are scared to lose someone. It's always been a cycle... Id somehow think is it a personality issue? Can we polish our personality?

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  22. Sharpie7 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Sharpie7 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:02PM

    Repeat the question with "guys" and "girls" switched, and you have one of the great mysteries of my life!

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  23. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:01PM

    Taking a chance always trumps hiding.

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  24. Darksideofme255 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Darksideofme255 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:01PM

    they swallow

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  25. Expressyvist - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Expressyvist Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:14PM

    lol

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  26. MeteorDeath - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by MeteorDeath Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:01PM

    Because relationships are supposed to be a competition not a cooperation. (:

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  27. IamDRock - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by IamDRock Jan 3rd, 2013 at 2:01PM

    No, I prefer nice girls

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