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Guys are always telling me I'm fat and ugly?

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I'm serious. Guys are always calling me ugly. Sorry that I'm not a size 2. Why are they always calling me this?

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18 Answers to "Guys are always telling me I'm fat and ugly?"

  1. bunnyhound - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bunnyhound Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:12PM

    i dont see a problem based on the pics. look fine to me.

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  2. Chubbybellyluvr - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Chubbybellyluvr May 2nd, 2013 at 9:18AM

    I just looked at your pics. You are not fat and ugly. You area very beautiful young woman.

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  3. fattydog - 31-35 years old

    Posted by fattydog Sep 27th, 2012 at 12:51AM

    i understand...guys tell me the same thing. what hurt most was that they were friends of mine who were trying to help. its happened so much i think it must be true and i have just been in denial my whole life...

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  4. ShyButCreativeSexyGuy - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by ShyButCreativeSexyGuy Sep 13th, 2012 at 7:23AM

    Only pic *1 shows your build & it's very Lara Croft

    Nothing unfeminine about a woman being so strong & healthy

    In fact, the famous Bible picture of the ideal wife - Proverbs 31 - has a most telling phrase that really gives the lie to 'fragile English rose' ideas: "her arms are strong for her work"

    As it was farming, involving lifting, her legs would be strong too, as you bend your legs to lift, not your back

    My best ever gf was a 240lbs care assistant who could lift & carry men heavier than herself with no effort

    It was hilarious when we cooked together in her kitchen & I got in her way: saying nothing, she picked me up in a bear hug, walked over to the nearest corner, plonked me down &, with her mischievous grin & twinkle in the eye said, "Stay!"

    I'm @ 170lbs, btw, but she could lift & carry 280lbs patients like that

    LOL

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  5. Riffster - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Riffster Jun 30th, 2012 at 12:14PM

    I'd suggest that the real issue is simply this: You look too confident and happy and thus intimidate the arseholes. So their only reaction is to try and denigrate you because you make them feel insecure.

    But I bet if you offered them something nice they'd jump at it - and rightly so! Don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting you should just pointing out that whatever they may say, their actions speak louder than any of their words

    There are only a very few men who wouldn't be proud to have you on their arm :)

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  6. ImBeingMe - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by ImBeingMe Jun 19th, 2012 at 11:05PM

    Ugh ******* pigs..... Dont listen too them babe your beautiful outside and more importantly inside. Stay away from people that put you down. They wont do you any justice.

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  7. darkangellights - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by darkangellights Jun 19th, 2012 at 3:59PM

    You'd check out with a b+ to me you look just fine

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  8. tak1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by tak1 Jun 13th, 2012 at 6:54PM

    They probably have tiny penis's or have butter brothers (the rather dubious act of a group of guys standing in a circle, rubbing butter on their swords and then sliding them against each others). Like I said, losers!

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  9. tak1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by tak1 Jun 13th, 2012 at 6:53PM

    *grin*

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  10. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:45PM

    they're just being mean. are these schoolboys or relatives?
    you need to spend time with better people.

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  11. Takumii - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Takumii Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:20PM

    um.. looks like they were right :p

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  12. dsrice - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by dsrice Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:19PM

    You look very beautiful to me.

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  13. Discretepleaser - 36-40 years old

    Posted by Discretepleaser Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:16PM

    I think your gorgeous! You have an infectious smile and cute eyes. No, you are not fat! Your a very cute normal looking lady! Take it from someone who gets 100's of peoples Pic's every day! You really need to kick whomever is inputting all the negativity to curb and go buy your self a nice sun dress and some slinky under wear! Walk outside and enjoy being YOU! Flash a few people if need to, they won't complain!

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  14. senecagirl11 - 61-65 years old - female

    Posted by senecagirl11 Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:15PM

    God made us all and God does not make mistakes-----he made elephants and they are beautiful----ive been a big women my whole life,i never had a shortage of dates or men.its all about self esteem,personality,and humourt-----love yourself it will come pouring out,and you will be sought out---------ive been married 45 yrs,have 3 kids and six grands------and guess what there are lots of men who love bigger women-----relax ,embrace and love who you are,and it will happen------nobodys perfect---and like all of us you can be a perfect imperfection-----------good luck-----

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  15. mukoji - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by mukoji Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:14PM

    sometimes this sort of behaviour can mean they like you or they may be jerks that like to bully people because of there own insecurities or they don't know how to treat women or they just dont want to admit about there own problems in the looks department and like to take it out on others

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  16. Illiteratetroll - 41-45 years old

    Posted by Illiteratetroll Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:12PM

    Pay no attention to them, the sort of guys who have such little class aren't worth listening to!

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  17. wokeupwithwoodagain - 46-50 years old

    Posted by wokeupwithwoodagain Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:12PM

    Some people think they can make themselves bigger by tearing other people down.

    We call them losers.

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  18. FlyHighGirl - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by FlyHighGirl Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:11PM

    if this is really you ! then u look good & nice
    and im wondering why u listen to those guys anyway? if they have no eye to see

    only one person can judge you and that is you
    do not let other control how u feel...or else u r going to be miserable the whole;e life

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  19. SaintMaj - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by SaintMaj Jun 13th, 2012 at 12:10PM

    You are not fat and not ugly.Don't be so hard on yourself kid.

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