a link to the story might help
if some thing bothers you . you wood change it. if women likeing women bothers her she should do the same... change it. or set bounderies. it like telling a child to pick there frinds carfully if there in a bad crowd because if you dont it will end up getting worse then it was be for.
Give more detail? The only advice I can give is move away from around them.
No,I didn't read your last story.
First,you can't make your friend happy,she has to want happiness for herself. Projection,is the key here,if she don't want to be bother with those ugly lesbians,stop projecting that she like lesbians. Who is in control of ones life? "You" and only "You",she sounds like she is weak,in this world you have to stand and be strong or you will be taking advantage of. All she have to do is speak up for herself,how the hell is she trying to be a lesbian and can't stand up for herself? Your friend would be better off, if she go back to dating "Men"! One more thing,anything that's against "God" is not going to work,and that life style is a gainst "God". A word from the "Wise"!
What hurt? All you can do is support her,she is the only one that can help her pain. You explaining her situation I don't see where she is in pain. Maybe the pain is her trying to fit in a lesbian relationship. Just Stop! No one has a gun to her head.