this question always amazes me, since most guys never say no to intimacy, whereas women are more likely to. So the risk to you of trying and having him say no is very low.
The best way depends on the guy and how well you know him, and what he may fantasize about.
I came home one time and my wife had lit little votive lamps and made a path between them sprinkled with roses through our house out in to the back yard where she lay on a blanket wearing a silky nightie.
That's one idea - but I'm sure the rest of the members have lots of other ideas.
If you're really "dangerbabe," then embrace the danger and take the iniative. What do you have to lose?
well if you don't show interest, how does he know you are? A LOT of women go along with sex because they care for and want to please their lover. If he's ALWAYS initiating, then it's very one-sided. You need need to initiate.
Oh really????? I initiated intimacy for 6 whole years and he always rejected me.......... and now he is my ex
When I was with my last bf, I only had to remove my work uniform while my bedroom door was open and he'd be in and on me.
dress up in a really short skirt with no panties and cook him supper, then after he eats, drop a spoon in front of him and see what happens
A beer or three usually does it.
My wife never initiating intimacy killed our marriage. I just didn't feel loved, or wanted, or even as if she cared to take the time for me. Just sit on the couch next to him and kiss the sh*t out of him. Do whatever; he won't mind. He just needs you to make the effort so that he will feel that you want him and love him.
Don't worry about it. What he really means is that he needs to know that you want him.
Not that I've actually followed my own advice, but here's what I'll suggest:
Look up a book called "101 Nights of Great Sex" on Amazon. It's got 101 different fantasies you can live out together.
'"Is your sex life perfect?" challenges Laura Corn in the introduction to her delightful and unique 101 Nights of Grrreat Sex. If the title, with its guarantee of "grrreat sex twice a week, every week, for one full year!" won't tempt you, the packaging will.'
Cook and serve him dinner wearing only an apron and high heels......and a smile.......make him wait for it though.
Grab his johnson.
Well, I just kiss him very passionately. And if he shows signs of thinking it's nothing more than a kiss, I do it again.
Walk up behind him, wrap your arms around him and kiss him on the neck.
when he is sitting watching tv or whatever, just kneel in front of him, spread his knees unzip his pants and get to work
if you ask nicely I would consider being your practice buddy
I am no longer with my husband, so maybe it is wrong, but why beat about the bush, I would tell him I was horny and place a hand on his crotch.
draw you a picture or what?. shake dat a ss :)