HEY single dads! Do you some times feel women feel pity for you, instead of taking a genuine interest in YOU?
although I'm a single mother I find that women that I talk to will that have spoken to the single dad, thier first reaction is "AWWWWWW that poor guy.. those kids need a mommy" how many of you single dads wish some of theses women would stop throwing out the pity card. and try to get to know the MAN that you are first and the father second. I know me as a single mother would never date a man for the reason that he pitied me . it is a dangerous game . because once that woman realizes you have your parenting skills in tact and that their was no real urgency for a mother figure, that woman can feel like you were using her all along. when in fact you were trying to let her know from the gate IM NOT LOOKING FOR A MOTHER FOR MY CHILDREN but she refused to listen.I think people like that feel they can play the " HERO" role, they want recognition. I think people like that do good in charity work or volunteering at a school but not dating the single dad