I am totally getting this situation. I think that he need to bk up a little. If you as her mother are not comfortable then that says something. As her mommy she is learning from you. Speak up before she gets to an age where she wont respect you for allowing her moves to be looked at as all wrong. She is only 5 and I have a 7 and 4 year old and I myself have had to learn to let my child enjoy and learn!