Has it ever happened to you that your best friend and your boy friend have become good friends?

I became close friends with my best friends MEN friends and her sister told her that it was because I just had to be seeing them which of course was not true and my friend believed her sister. It caused a rift that was never gotten over and we drifted apart. I tried to tell her that when there is no pressure or demands on a person as in a relationship it's different and it's easier to be friends but she wouldn't listen. She was insecure anyway.

oh yeah.. then my husband fell in love with her... the other ones he just slept with. This is not a good situation my dear.. not at all.. If you can stop this then stop it now.. if you can't.. well I suppose there are some people where this would never be a problem.. they would act right anyway. I just never had any people like that in my life...but I believed that I did for awhile.. For the most part I would be real concerned.. think about it.. you and your best bud are a lot alike, right.. and how convenient that she would be there to support both of you two when you hit a rough spot in the relationship.. (like all relationships do) and since you think he's so great and she's got tastes like yours and she's like you but without any of the baggage you collect when your with someone..end this now! Good luck...

Oh yeah. She was my roomate and best friend. As it turned out i found out what an annoyance i am to her. Everything from my daily habits to her pet peeves about me. The reason he wanted me to move in with him was to get me out of her hair, as he put it. So he could come over to her place freely. They deserve each other. One stupor-induced catastrophy after another.