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Has media and our government had anything to do with so many people accepting gay as a normal thing.?

I don't understand how anyone could accept the fact that being Gay or Lesbian is ok, or accepted as a normal part of life . I still believe that it should be kept in the closet, instead of giving our children another option to consider. Some people are born with suicidal tendancies, should it be ok to just let them go out in public and off themselves? Should our government and media make suicide an ok and cool thing too. I was married to a woman who was suicidal. I don't know if it is true or not, but I was told by a psychiatrist that suicidal people are born with the genes that give them the ability to do that. Since it is something they were born with should they be given the OK to do it? Isn't it hard enough to raise children these days? Thank God my 3 are grown and all have their own families now. I think it is terrible the way they have all these TV shows on with gay and lesbians in them. I think it is horrible how they fly a rainbow flag at city hall in Lakewood, Ohio for gay and lesbians. I don't think it is something that should be broadcast. I don't have a problem with people who want to go this route, I understand different strokes for different folks. I just have a problem with the publicity of it all. Maybe they should fly a flag with a pill bottle, a knife, and a gun to show support for suicidal people too. Boy this is going to stir up some fires. But don't forget I have nothing against the gay and lesbians, they should just keep in in the closet and not out in the public eye. I also am not downing people with suicidal thoughts, I was in love with one at one time. What is the government letting this country become. No prayer in school, Abortions are OK, What is next. To think that one of the most stressful things we had to explain to our children was where babies come from and how they got in mommys tummy. Those were the good old days. Now look at what all we have to worry about them seeing, hearing, or asking about.
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The media diffenantly had a effect on the acceptance of homosexuals as the norm. The percentage of homosexuals in America is very low, but they out number the percentage of many race groups on television including blacks. They always show the upside of being gay it is fun and you can just explore and their are no consequences when in real life there are social and medical concerns for the homosexual community they will not show. If you continually show people that something is right or wrong over and over again they will began to believe it, look at advertising they bank on this concept.
I am not agreeing with or against homosexuals here just the manipulation of our own media to make something acceptable to everyone when it is not.
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Posted Jul 7th, 2009 at 8:08AM
I agree with you. I find people who are born with epilepsy, or blind, deaf, or crippled to be offensive - why should my children have to be traumatized by seeing them? I think they should all just stay inside and not be allowed out on the streets.

And Blacks, Asians, Latins, Middle-easterners - they all look different than the "normal" white Northern Europeans. I understand they are born that way (poor devils) and don't want to exterminate them or anything - I'm a reasonable guy - but should they be allowed out on the streets with the decent normal folks? Should our government try to convince us that they're OK? What if our kids marry one of them?

And, you know what - all those people who attend other churches than mine - I don't want my children being given another option to consider. I want them to stick to my ideas - so, I think they should be restricted too.

Don't want my tax dollars spent trying to convince people that Presbyterians and Nazarenes and Catholics are OK. And, when you get to LDS and Jews and Moslems and all the rest - why should they be allowed to flaunt their disturbing differences in my children's faces.

I am not advocating locking any of these groups up or loading them onto box cars for resettlement away from "decent" folks - at least not yet. Maybe we could have them wear armbands in public so we'll know who to avoid and restrict their ability to attend public schools (since we pay for those) and their ability to work or own businesses.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 3:52AM
Dear Rob,

I find it very unfortunate that you are so narrow-minded and intolerant. It's disgusting that you compare homosexuality to suicide. How the heck are two people being in love the same thing as a person tragically killing themselves?! This type of attitude infuriates me, and I'm not even gay.

No one should have to hide their gender-preference; that is offensive and absurd. No one should be tortured, beaten, persecuted, ridiculed, mocked, hindered, or treated differently simply because of who they fall in love with. They aren't hurting you, they aren't vile, they aren't immoral, and they aren't going to turn your children into a homosexual (on noez!!!!!) simply by existing in public. Being straight doesn't make you better than being homosexual.

I am SO grateful that homosexuality is becoming accepted as a normal thing, BECAUSE IT IS A NORMAL THING, Rob.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 3:52AM
Rob, if people are more accepting of gay as normal, than I believe that to be a good thing no matter how it came about. I don't know any other way to answer your question.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 3:52AM
Wow, that's a loaded gun you have there Rob. Comparing sexual preference to depression/suicidal thoughts? It's understandable that you personally don't agree with sleeping with the same sex, for yourself. And I know that you said you don't care that others do, but why would you also say that you don't think they should be allowed to embrace themselves and their lives? I would only hope that the media and government could help people be more accepting of same sex relationships, seeing as they've been around as long as hetero-sexual ones.
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Posted Jul 7th, 2009 at 8:11AM
Why do you have to be so closed minded? I'm 14 years old and I'm really open minded and hearing that from an adult is just sad. How could it be that a grown adult has these horrible things to say. When and if you become gay, then maybe you'll have the right to say something about homo sexuality. Otherwise, stay shut !
You really disgust me.
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Posted Jul 7th, 2009 at 8:09AM
It is normal-if you are gay. Why worry about others?look after #1. Ps, didnt read your (what I assumed to be) vomit. Live, and let live. Its cliche, but its true.
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Posted Jul 9th, 2009 at 3:53AM
its not normal but that doesn't mean that its wrong, chances are you are more traumatized by it than your kids will ever be
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Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 1:08PM
Eep... okay, I understand what you're saying and where you're coming from. I also know this is a very touchy subject. However, what you have to understand is that gays were treated horribly for decades. They were discriminated against, beat up, and killed, all because they were gay. That's not cool. Of course the government should step in and do something about it. The government has a responsibility to protect all citizens no matter who they sleep with.
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Posted Jul 7th, 2009 at 8:39AM
I don't believe that it matters what I say, because you won't listen. However, I must at least try to convey the ideas just in case I am wrong about your ignorance.

It doesn't matter whether you can understand "how anyone could accept the fact that being gay or lesbian is okay" or not. I'm sure there are a LOT of things that you do not understand. Whether or not you believe that it should be kept in the closet does not matter. The fact that you do not think gay situations and concepts should be braodcast does not matter. The fact that you don't think they should fly rainbow flags does not matter. Do you understand? Your opinion about this does not matter. Gay people are not going to ask for your permission.

No. We should not let people kill themselves in public. This, however, is completely unrelated to whether or not people hide the fact that they are gay. Killing anyone, including yourself, is decidedly wrong. Loving someone is not.

If gay people are making it hard for someone to raise their kids, maybe it is because they are worrying over dangers that simply aren't there, and issues that just don't matter. The fact that gay people exist does not matter to children any more than it matters to anyone else, unless they decide to make a big deal out of it. You complain about having to explain to your children more than just where babies come from. So what? Why is it any harder to mention that some guys like each other too? The kid isn't going to care anyway. He wants to go play video games. He's probably not going to ask questions, but if he does, what could he possibly ask that wouldn't be hard to explain? "Yes. They love each other. No. They can't get married."

You obviously do have a problem with gay people, if you don't want to see them publicized, no matter how convincing you sounded when you claimed that you are not (Ha!) . If I announced that I didn't want to see particular minorities on my television, I would be called a lot of names, as I'm sure you are.

The fact that in your post you also complained about no prayer in school; something that is completely off the subject matter, but is a good excuse to mention God, almost randomly; tells the reader all the he needs to know about your motivations and opinions on the issue.

It's a shame that I have written all of this toward someone who will most likely not absorb a word of it anyway.
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