Have I Done The Right Thing?

About 6 months ago, i was going through a bad stage in my life with my ex girl friend, i had my best friend/child hood friend to lean on and talk to about the things i was going through, me and my ex really hated each other from what ever happend at the time and so did everyone else that was in my family or friends, but if the times me and my friend was talking he be going on how bad that is and what a ***** and a ***** she is for doing that you know, a couple of weeks later me and my ex got back together and worked things out, one night i see that my friend was buddys on facebook, when i clearly knew they was nbot buddys on that just a bit of time ago, so i asked my girlfriend when did ye become friends on facebook again, she said she doesnt know they were just friends a while ago, this kinda crap so i tryed to leave it off, even tho they had to of becoming friends within them few weeks!.. actually and when i asked her about how long or ye friends on it, i also asked when did ye talk and stuff, she said he just wrote 2 her once in private mail aking hows things and how is the child and stuff and that was it, i left that off because i was so angry because he just even wrote to her in private mail, did not tell me anything about it and she was calling her every name when i was up with him talking about the things that was going on, anyway that night when i found out he wrote to her i blocked him from all my web pages as been friends and stuff, cut him off completey and have not talking 2 him since or seen him, i have never really trusted anyone before but from that night, about 6 months ago, i letted everything go and i dont trust anyone anymore and from the things that went on with me and my ex when we was not together, has made me trust no1 and lose everything i had for anyone as is fith or trust or anything like that, i dont trust mt girlfriend either, its like they say how can you love someone if you dont trust them, well thats the way with my girlfriend but its love its the drive of it thats making me stay with her and try to keep the trust part away, but i want to know have i made the right path of blocking my best friend out of my life, i have had to many bad friends before i dont need anymore betraying me, that why he is blocked out of my life right now!

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No, really...you lost me at "six months ago....."

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pickynancy1234	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 3:36PM Your question is very long. But, I think I can give a thoughtful answer without actually reading it. It doesn't matter if I think that you did the right thing. What matters is that you feel that way. Do you feel that way? If you do, don't worry about how other's perceive it. If you don't feel like you did the right thing, then you should find something to do that will make up for the wrong you feel that cause or ignored. Do whatever is necessary to make your self feel at peace with your actions. Rated: +1Vote for this!
midnightstoker	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 3:42PM i was going to suggest something but pickynancy just blew me out of the water i agree try it out ..good luck fella Rated: +1Vote for this!
Ed001	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 3:43PM The thing is, as long you are feeling bad about him, you are waisting time and energy doing so. That negative feeling will never go. Just let it go and don't forget to love yourself Rated: +1Vote for this!
midlifemadness	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 4:27PM I think the whole thing is a bit silly.... its a person on a damn facebook or myspace. I mean are you going to always wonder about who she is talking to on those sites? you're gonna drive yourself insane. If you can't trust her, then where is the relationship? why have it then? doesn't sound like it's making you very happy. She is making you question all of your friends... that does not sound healthy at all. Seriously, consider your relationship and where it's at. If you trust her then quit worrying about her facebook... if you don't trust her... quit worrying about her facebook and work on your relationship!!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
ohsarahbeara07	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 6:23PM Ok. well, first of all. I understand why you would feel betrayed. Backstabbed- if you will. Your best 'friend' is after your girl. But me? I wouldn't stay with her. I, for one, cannot be in an untrusting relationship. You can't be truly happy. You will be stressed all the time about what you are doing wrong and why you can't be the only one to make her happy. You will stress about if she is going where she really says she is. Let me ask you something. Probally the most important question there is right now. Can you see yourself living like this, and feeling like this for the rest of your life? This one simple question was asked to me by my sister and inevitably, made me make the right decision. Even though I am single, I am truly happy I don't have that stress anymore. I am worth so much more, and you are too. No one should have to settle for less than what they want. True happiness. take care. Rated: +1Vote for this!
sighhhh	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 7:23PM You're ******* crazy. Rated: +1Vote for this!
mzdivine	Posted Oct 15th, 2009 at 11:09PM Do you know how to form a Sentence and Paragraph? I Somehow do not think so! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Greg862	Posted Oct 16th, 2009 at 1:09AM Obviously, your supposed "best friend" was after your girl...or it sure seems that way if he wasn't. If he were your "true" friend, he would not have been contacting her unless it served some purpose of helping you in some way...e.g. to get some inside information, etc. But if he was just privately saying hello to her, seeing how she's doing, etc....trust me, he was laying the groundwork to make a move on her, had you two not gotten back together. Any "friend" who does that...is not a friend at all. My concern would be about your GF as well. How was she feeling about receiving those messages from him? Does she still talk to him? If you have cut him off and she hasn't...that situation needs fixing. If she can't understand your reasons (tell her why), then something might be going on...she just might be keeping him close in case something else happens between you two...and that is NOT a good situation. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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