Have i got the right to demand respect?

Listen to Aretha Franklin...

Dump his ***

We all deserve to have respect in our relationships..... without it there is not much of a foundation to build on, mutual respect is very important.

Yep...he is controlling you and you need to get as far away from him as possible....Trust me...he will never change! I have to agree with everyone above me...get out while now! Later it will only be more complicated!

http://counsellingresource.com/

Look up disturbed character thinking patterns... There is a whole series on @hole abusers and the way they try to make it the victims fault. Trust me, I just got away from one. The best article this guy has is on LOSERS. Please read these and you wont feel so bad about yourself.

Yes, it will only get worse. Find a way to end it as soon as possible. I'm sure you deserve better, no one deserves to be abused if they are not abusing.

You need to get as far away from him as possible!!! This is a person who does not like or respect himself not to mention he has issues with women and they are bad ones. the abuse will only get worse. You are worth more and you need to ask yourself why you think he is all you can get. why do you feel you are not worthy or good enough for a real man and a real relationship. you may have some issues to work out yourself before you can have a real relationship.

I think you got a loser, controlling boyfriend..Yeah, dump him..If you don't then you won't have my respect....;) J/K! Oh, and you oughtta put a fear into him and make like your crazy and tell him he doesn't know the meaning of "torture"....muahahaha! :D

Everyone has the right to demand respect, unless they don't give it to others.

It's him who's really torturing him and you both AND you must leave him as soon as you can regardless of the fact that you still love him - if you still love him the way your lives are, this is not a healthy love for you both....
You don't only deserve respect, ANYONE IS ENTITLED TO IT since their birth

Sounds very much like signs of abuse - emotional & verbal at the least. In those situations there is always (and most likely) a high risk of physical violence.
Every person has the right to be respected & he's not providing that. Talk to a counsellor (soon), access help to figure all this out. then go from there. There are many anonymous help lines to get information & support.
At all costs keep yourself safe (emotionally, physically) & keep reaching out.

Dump him would be my advice too... get a nice boyfriend... somebody who will never hurt you, somebody who respects you and likes you the way you are!!!

Hes an *******!!! You will loose him anyway...so, do it while you still have some respect for yourself!

Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes. But you cant get it if the person you are with does not believe that. Find someone that does!

Step back and look at yourself and look at yourself without emotion. You are being controlled by freak and you are blind to the fact that he controls you through your affection for him. This is the most unkind act anyone can do to another. It is impossible to defend yourself against this. Dump this guy it will get worse. He is an abuser of the worst kind.

get soem courage and leave.

i don't think this is anything to do with you. he has issues of his own think.
you've got every right to demand respect. everybody deserves some respect.
i think you should ask yourself... do you really want to live your life being controlled, being the one always in the wrong in his eyes?
you want someone who'll let you be yourself, meet you half way. what you do from here is up to you. but unless you come to some sort of agreement, start treating eachother with respect and love like you both should. there won't be much of a future.

You have to command respect...and you do that, by not allowing the abuse in your life...every time he gets away with it (you stay, even though he has called you horrible names, or has you do "nonsense things"), it just reinforces in his mind, that he can do it again, and again....the only way it will stop, is if you make it stop....and you do that, by leaving....or if he's physically abusive, calling the police.....this low-life needs to learn that there will be consequences to his actions.

Your boyfriend sounds like he may have a personality disorder, to me....and it's not going to get any better....someone who blames you for everything, and has to belittle you, in order to get through the day....clearly has issues with his own self esteem, and possible his identity.....

Love isn't supposed to hurt.....You deserve better than this jerk.....there is someone out there, who would love you, for real....not play games with your head, and your heart....

Move on...leave this loser in the dust....you can do so much better than this guy

Dont be so weak love kick him out do u like being treated like a piece a crap. you dont know what love is do you.you are co dependent.your just another woman who needs a man. so sad get a life.