Yes. Both. I was young, dumb, and full of ***. Lost a woman who I really did love, all because I had a buzz and succumbed to temptation. Though it was years ago, I still feel shame over it. Then it happened to me. A very harsh, nasty, feeling. I went away.<br />
Very painful. There is not a silver lining. At least not in my case. To hell with all that prattle about "at least you learned your lesson". Bullshit. The damage was done, and can not be taken back.
I admire your honesty. I just wanted you to know that I find brutal honesty attractive in people. If you ever need to talk or get it off your shoulders, I'm here for you. My name is Gina btw.
You should forgive yourself first and the rest of the coping process will come naturally.
Didn't betray yet if you don't count avoiding your responsibilities. Haven't been betrayed either cause i really couldn't care less for those who think they can do something harmful to me. U feel betrayed when u care for someone n don't get what u expect.
Yep both. They both suck equally!