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Have u ever met some1 in real life from online, seemed outgoing & exciting but when u met they were introverted & boring

I'm all about outgoings was. But I felt like they put on a show to get my attention. As if they jad the same interests but in reality they didnt. They don't even have any hobbies. How to cope with this? It's kind of discouraging to make people do stuf when all they rather do is stay at home and watch movies. When I rather be traveling and enjoying the outdoors and having conversations, I love to talk, but they don't seem to know how to start or hold a conversation. I didn't think I would be holding someone's hand for them to enjoy life the way they should at such a young age. He's 26 btw. FML

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  1. aesgard - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by aesgard Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:30PM

    welcome to reality...... the non-virtual kind.....

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  2. Misophoniac - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Misophoniac Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:46PM

    Fml

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  3. FallenAngelWOOT - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FallenAngelWOOT Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:30PM

    Nope he was hawter than hawt! :)

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  4. Misophoniac - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Misophoniac Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:33PM

    He's hot but his personality is blah

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  5. FallenAngelWOOT - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by FallenAngelWOOT Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:37PM

    Nope his personality rocks :D

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  6. Dollyismyleader - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Dollyismyleader Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:34PM

    I went on a date once with a stand up comedian. We were hilarious together in writing. We totally flat lined in person. Weird, isn't it?

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  7. Misophoniac - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Misophoniac Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:47PM

    Been there, no 2nd date lol

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  8. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:32PM

    I don't advertise excitement . I am boring and introverted?

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  9. KeasbeyNights - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by KeasbeyNights Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:31PM

    Obviously, especially with this crowd, myself included. It's much easier to be outgoing online.

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  10. Misophoniac - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Misophoniac Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:35PM

    I'm the same online and in person. I mean if you present yourself out there a certain way. Keep it up. I mean he cant blame me for having expectations.

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  11. KeasbeyNights - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by KeasbeyNights Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:39PM

    Well, it's not as simple for us introverted people. We have a vivid interior life, but it's hard to vocalize that in real life. The internet is a great outlet for such people. Are we supposed to just not say anything on the internet? The interactions that go on online, while similar to real life, do not exactly mirror it.

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  12. nukemycorndog - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by nukemycorndog Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:31PM

    Too many to count, yes. But then just the opposite has happened too -- they're sorta duds on line, and in person way cool and fun.

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  13. Fuzzies - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Fuzzies Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:30PM

    ....That'd be me. :P

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  14. Misophoniac - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Misophoniac Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:35PM

    Noooo! Turn around lol

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  15. Fuzzies - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Fuzzies Jan 16th, 2013 at 5:43PM

    You'd never figure out what type of girl I was if you saw me in real life. In RL, I'm pretty much passive, shy, languid and demure. I'm also ridiculously incoherent and trip over my words. I'm also pretty darn average looking. :P, I'd say I'm a pretty big let down.

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