Have you been caught in a love triangle and need answers? Do you need your significant other to make a choice?
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...YES I FELT LIKE THAT WITH MY HUSBAND AND HIS OTHER PERSON ...BUT NOW HE CAN KEEP HIM...IF HE DID THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IF HE HAS TO CHOOSE THEN I GUESS ITS OVER
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Yes, I got caught. I didn't lie. I told her that I had been trying to communicate that we were in trouble for 15 years in a marriage that's 23 yo. The sex with us just kept getting less and less. She even was rejecting my advances. I had been to counseling and tried all the romantic and adventure dating ****. One day I just did it and ****** someone else. She found out and I confronted her with why.
She forgave me and promised things would change. They did for about 2 months. Now it's the same again only worse. Now she refuses to give oral sex. Ok, so I can understand, sort of.
Now, I don't need her to make a decision. I need to make a decision. What do I do. I've done just about everything under the sun. Should I ask her for an open marriage, should I find another discreet lover only to probably be found out again. Or, should I just cut the cord and ask for a divorce?
I do love her and she says she loves me. Together we are financially strong. All the pluses say stay together. All minuses say if I do then I'll never have sex again.
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Posted by thiswhisper 1 Sep 7th, 2011 at 2:51PM
Sort of - I had two girls that were best friends that both wanted to be with me, but I wanted to be with this other girl I'd been great friends with for years. Everyone was afraid of doing something in case they hurt someone else. In the end, I just had to take a deep breath and make a decision. You can't just leave it that way, else everyone gets hurt.
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