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Have you ever been with someone and you feel like they are intentionally messing up to make you hate them?

Like, they secretly want their freedom but are too cowardly to just leave, so they screw you over until you make them leave.
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Posted Oct 20th, 2009 at 12:40AM
OH YES!!! And I think I have subcosciously done this as well. I think I do this when I get scared of getting close to someone. Also like a test...of how much they can take.. It's mean.. but lets me know if they can handle all my mood swings in the future. ♥
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Posted Oct 19th, 2009 at 7:07AM
yes. i even had a guy tell me that he picked arguments with me in order to have an excuse to leave. all he had to do was just walk out the door, no games necessary.
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:12PM
let them go.....then you will be happier
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:12PM
yes,i feel im in that relationship now
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:13PM
That makes so much sense right now....
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:15PM
Every second of every minute of everyday......
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:18PM
no i haven't. i did however date a total tool but he really was a true jerk. tho i did know people who used that strategy to get the other person to break up with them. its stupid in my opinion.
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:24PM
Sometime it the only way to get out off a much hated situation .
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:51PM
definitely. it doesn't happen a lot, but when it does, it's pretty obvious. they should just leave.
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Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 7:55PM
Sometimes are just checking how much control they have over you and how far they can push you. This does not come from love, this comes from a personal complex. Have no part in it if you can
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