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Have you ever faked it in a bad relationship till you found a way out of it?

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Asked By: Aqua8601 26-30, F  5 months ago

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  1. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:39PM

    I'd just rather be honest and let them go if were in our early stages, instead of dragging it out for the sake of not being alone or sparing their feelings.

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  2. Aqua8601 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Aqua8601 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:02PM

    We're partially in the early stages, but we are deep in the relationship. There's no way out for me at the moment and I have expressed to her my insecurities in the relationship, but with no fixing. I want the relationship to work, but I'm so numb right now due to unhappiness.

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  3. Agonystick - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Agonystick Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:39PM

    What do you mean, find a way out? The way out is by being honest, tell them how you feel, and break up with them. Don't do manipulative things to make them feel insecure, or lead them on. Just be honest and straightforward. Also, it would be good if you talked to them about your insecurities in the relationship so that you can give them a chance to change things.

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  4. Aqua8601 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Aqua8601 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:05PM

    Out of her place. I'm awaiting for an apartment and I'm also saving for a car. I moved from NY to MI without realizing to get to places I need a car. So, I'm like a sitting duck awaiting my freedom, but I feel like I'm numbing myself to stay here and deal with her till then. Like I'm dead inside.

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  5. Agonystick - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by Agonystick Jan 18th, 2013 at 2:02PM

    Ah I see, that's a bit of a tough situation. Maybe you could stay with someone else till your apartment is ready? if you can find an alternative to staying there for the time being, it's probably a good option.

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  6. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:34PM

    No. I've only stayed in a relationship if I thought there was some hope to save it. And even if I knew it was coming to a breakup, I've never "faked" it. What would be the point of that? There aren't "escape routes" that I know of.

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  7. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:34PM

    Half faking it in one now. I've told him how miserable I am and we've been "trying" to make things work for a long time. On Monday he admitted to the counselor that he's only been half trying, because of fear of failure in relationships. I accepted this and was ready to give it another try, because I believe in honoring the vows I took, but I'm realizing today that I don't think I can do this. I really don't even like him anymore. I've spent the morning either sleeping or crying. Not sure exactly what's next. Tears on the keyboard...

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  8. Aqua8601 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Aqua8601 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:08PM

    I feel you, we have been trying too and I'm afraid for me I'm noticing too many red flags that doesn't allow for us to work it out. I can't leave just yet cause I'm currently working on my freedom from her, but just being numb around her till I'm out of here.

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  9. leumasb - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by leumasb Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:34PM

    Not out of it but deeper in it.

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  10. toughchick - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by toughchick Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:34PM

    Not a good enough liar for that plus I wouldn't want to hurt someone needlessly

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  11. Aqua8601 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Aqua8601 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:08PM

    Lol I hear you.

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  12. aprilriver - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by aprilriver Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:34PM

    Sort of, I was in the process of leaving when I finally had a really good reason to just get the hell out of there. before that I was trying to do it slowly and let him down gently.

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  13. Aqua8601 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Aqua8601 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:08PM

    Maybe that's what I'm doing...hmm

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  14. aprilriver - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by aprilriver Jan 21st, 2013 at 11:47AM

    best to just do it quickly, like ripping off a bandage

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  15. nobuddiesbiznessbuttmine - 41-45 years old

    Posted by nobuddiesbiznessbuttmine Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:33PM

    I'm from New Jersey, what do you think?

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  16. Aqua8601 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Aqua8601 Jan 18th, 2013 at 12:09PM

    I don't know what that means lol

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  17. ShellOfAMan - 31-35 years old

    Posted by ShellOfAMan Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:33PM

    Doing that right now.

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