Have you ever realized that partying doesn't make you happy anymore?

Asked By: iameliza 22-25, F 2 years ago

I party a lot before.. beers, getting wasted, flings, dancing w/ guys, dares, clubbin etc.
It was fun. But as i get older, well i'm just 23, I'm getting sick of it.
It's like i wanna get serious, have a real relationship, achieve my dreams, help poor people, etc. It makes me lonely sometimes. =P

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Posted by beyondrepair Jul 19th, 2010 at 12:45AM

It never made me happy.

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Reply by iameliza Jul 15th, 2010 at 4:47AM

never? why?
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Posted by Jiemusu Aug 1st, 2010 at 5:43AM

Partying should be something that's done to CELEBRATE something.

Going out for the sake of it, every weekend, why? You're doing it just because everyone else is too, where's your individuality? Why are you hopping onto the bandwagon of what society makes you feel you HAVE to do? Why are you doing it? To have fun? Ask yourself, is it really fun?

I only party when, as mentioned, there's something to party for. You save money for one thing.

But the thing with partying is, the drama afterwards, drink fuelled drama, is it worth it? People looking like a mess, screaming at each other, everyone leaves feeling awkward. Is this really the "fun" that people feel they HAVE to do every week?

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Posted by HowAboutNoScott Jul 16th, 2010 at 8:50PM

For sure, I feel the same im 23 also. Iv drank myself sick enough. Iv kinda become more of a loner because of how I live now. I work out a lot more and save money and am trying to learn a few instruments. I didnt party much in HS but 2 years of drinking and bar hopping has lost its touch for me. You are not alone haha

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Reply by iameliza Jul 17th, 2010 at 10:59PM

haha! nice to hear im not alone! and hey, you're learning to play instruments so i think you like music too? =)
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Posted by chancesbreathe Jul 15th, 2010 at 2:22AM

I'm 24 and yes, this hit me square in the face, too. Partying and getting drunk is so old. So is hooking up with random guys. I now stick to closer friends and date more seriously (even if the guys don't like it haha)

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Reply by iameliza Jul 15th, 2010 at 2:31AM

yes exactly! haha
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Posted by RRK1 Jul 15th, 2010 at 1:50AM

30 years ago

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Posted by mmjgg Jul 15th, 2010 at 1:50AM

no... it still does the trick...

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Posted by realmac Jul 15th, 2010 at 1:49AM

you sure its not pms?

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Reply by iameliza Jul 15th, 2010 at 1:55AM

what's pms?
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