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Have you ever run to someones aide and ended up being physically harmed?

I once went to help my best friend who called me up crying that her boyfriend had punched her in the back. I told her to call the police, but she refused. I told her to take off, but her boyfriend had taken her car keys and locked himself up in the bedroom. I told her that I would come over and pick her up, if she absolutely needed me too. She begged for me to pick her up. So, I get over there and she isn't waiting outside like I told her to do. I knocked on the door and she was gathering up items for an overnight bag. In the interim, he emerges from the bedroom, empties a can of mace in my face and takes off with her car. See, no good deed goes unpunished, and I wasn't wrong in cussing myself out before I even got to her front door!
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NOT Yet. I have a 4th degree black belt and rarely have to use it though.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 1:37PM
Wow, I feel for you.

Yes, I tried to stop a fight from getting worse, ended up getting stabbed and cut with a hunting knife for it.

In the event you make a decision to do what I did, don't do it if you've been drinking.

This happened when I was 20, and I still have the nice scars to remind me.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 12:26PM
Oh my goodness! That sounds awful! I bet you would do it the same way if you had to though.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 12:33PM
You were trying to help your friend It was the right thing. I got punched in the jaw in a similar situation. I would do it again, no hesitation.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 12:39PM
Yes, but I knew what I was in for at the time. I used to volunteer as an escort at a womens' clinic in Texas, which got picketed and protested frequently. The local police were pretty lukewarm about responding to threats, and sometimes even protestors trying to physically prevent clients from entering the building, even when such clients were going in for low-cost Pap smears or contraception. Two of us were escorting a frightened teenage girl into the clinic when I got hit in the head from behind by a rotten watermelon with a dolls' head and limbs stuck into it... it stunk, and it hurt, but it didn't stop me.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 1:08PM
Yes but I would do it again if I had to.
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 2:18PM
no... but if it's someone I truely care about i would run to them even if i do get hurt!
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Posted Sep 17th, 2009 at 9:18PM
A young girl was getting beaten badly and a couple of other adults and I stepped in and they pulled the attacker off the girl and I helped her up off the ground and I had my hands on her shoulders asking her if she was okay when the girls super ignorant mother came and all of a sudden she's jumping at me telling me to get my hands off her daughter and I got no business touching her and I'm stunned for a half a second and then this mother is actually trying to fight me!!! I couldn't believe it. She didn't say anything to the other two adults that had helped her daughter out but she focused on me. She wasn't so stupid as to swing on me though and I did call the police. From that moment on I made a vow to NEVER, EVER help another child out. I've seen plenty of fights since this happened and I stood by and watched just like every body else after I'd called the cops. Parents who are like that woman is cause their kids more harm than good.
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