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Have you ever written a 'Love Letter' that you never meant to send?

I'm collecting "love letters" from friends/acquaintances that they have written or recieved. I'm curious to know if you ever wrote one KNOWING that you'd never send it.
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yes, and then placed it in his casket because i wished i had sent the damn thing
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 7:58PM
I did that , with real paper and ink letter . He was a guy i feel very attracted to , he had a strong presence and i wanted him to know about my feelings , back then i was naive enough to let myself be so open with my feelings . Because i lived in cuba there was no computers so I went to his own house and slid the perfumed letter under his door very late at night on VALENTINES DAY. I felt afraid someones was going to open the door and caught on the act but i was so sly and cautious about it , that i did it a second time as the continuation of the first letter , which was part of a poetry series i had written just for him .I never got a reaction , you know why? he already had a girlfriend and then i felt like an idiot for wasting all that time and so i went and destroyed a third and final letter i had for him .
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 9:59AM
Yeah, I've written a few. It's like a self cleansing ritual.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:00AM
Quite a few actually... many of them because lyrics for songs.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:02AM
yeah i have... also text messages that i saved in the draft box and never sent, and emails, and handwritten letters, even a sticky not that i stuck in his locker (he was my best male friend and we had each others locker combos) and later went back and took out before he read it
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:04AM
No but I have text the wrong person saying something I don't like about them! Oops....
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:08AM
Its good recovery theapy I think. Helps you sort out the feelings.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:09AM
Well maybe I shouldnt have sent them.........
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:09AM
Pro-Activity is the success of life. Never be afraid to follow through with your goals or feelings. When I like someone, I tell them. When I don't like someone ......... I tell them. I would not feel complete, otherwise.

Regarding Love ...... Don't tell the one you love, and you may never know if they loved you. Don't wait for others to make you complete, before you are brave enough to speak.

Step up, be seen, be heard, be known. Just be honest.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:11AM
I wrote a 'why I fell out of love and you should stop contacting me' letter that I had no intention of sending..... the one I ended up sending to him was much better.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 10:11AM
I wrote one once but I sent it. I always believe you should try things. I put it out there and he didn't feel the same. I was still really happy as I would hate to live not knowing if he felt the same and how my life could have been different. Now I've let the idea of him go.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 11:19AM
Absolutely! And I have sent them as well. It is a healing, and it never hurts to let someone know how you feel. Most do appreciate it even if they never respond.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 11:59AM
I have.
And I made the mistake of sending them.
I have had to make a few drafts that I kept.
When I read them much later on.
I feel so embarrassed that I was so stupid to even put pen to paper.
Never again.
She didn't have the guts or decency to reply.
She told me some bs that her reply was returned to her TWICE because of some bullsh*t reason.
Pfffffffftttttt. Am I meant to beleive that.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 5:36PM
yeah i did , when i was in college i think , wrote one for a guy but didn't bother sending it . he 's gay :-)
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