I Tried for years but now I realize that I cant do it alone. I not only have been clean and sober for the past 3 years - and, HAPPY! All through AA
I think if you don't need help you really aren't an alcoholic.
I'll drink to that.
I don't know that I was an alcoholic but I sure used to drink a lot. It just quit being fun so I stopped. Now it's just an occasional beer when it's hot or when we go out for dinner.
no. I am a happy alcholic
ba<x>sed upon extensive observation, I tend to think the ability to do it on one's own is the difference. Actual alcoholics can't overcome it without outside help.
My dad did. He was an abusive alcoholic, eventually he realized that he wanted to keep his family and so he really tried to stop. Had relapses every now and then but we didn't stop supporting him and eventually he gave up the alcohol that was hurting him and us. Now he drinks beer, a better alternative for all of us.
I stopped drinking 31 years ago, on my own, without any help; but I probably wasn't an alcoholic. Just someone who drank too much.
That's good. Was it difficult for you?
Yeah, me too. No problem. I didn't like me drunk, so I stopped being drunk.
Any reason that gets us to quit is a good reason. In my case, I said something that hurt my 7 year old daughter's feelings, and scared her. In order to make it right, I promised her she would never see her mother drunk again. She is 38 now and I've never been drunk since that day.
:) I've never regretted it. She is also the one who got me to quit smoking.
I guess she is my life saver.
I don't drink.