Register

Have you release or forgiven the one who hurt you, or do you still harbor pain amd hard feelings against the person?

Is This A Good Question? (2)

Add an Answer to "Have you release or forgiven the one who hurt you, or do you still harbor pain amd hard feelings against the person?"

Send me an email when there are new answers to this question

    Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):

    Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:25AM

    "Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die."

    [ Reply ] | Like (2)

  1. imabear - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by imabear Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:40AM

    You got it!

    Like (1)

11 Answers to "Have you release or forgiven the one who hurt you, or do you still harbor pain amd hard feelings against the person?"

  1. aziansunshine - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by aziansunshine Jan 2nd, 2013 at 6:36PM

    I've forgiven him because I just don't want to be full of hate... However, forgiving him doesn't take the pain away from deep inside my heart. I am still dealing with it, only time will tell.

    Like (1)

  2. toistory - 41-45 years old

    Posted by toistory Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:42AM

    I travel back n forth. I honestly could care less...

    Like (1)

  3. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:31AM

    I still have a whole bunch of pain inside me which I think will always be with me no matter what.

    Like (1)

  4. twotonedme - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by twotonedme Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:40AM

    Pain, if left untreated inside you can transform. One of the things it transforms to is bitterness which is like unto a cancer inside.

    Like (1)

  5. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Oddandsingular Jan 2nd, 2013 at 12:58PM

    it's a choice...let it go or hang onto it

    Like (1)

  6. 1littlerose - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by 1littlerose Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:31AM

    To err is human, to forgive is divine.

    I'm a very forgiving person and always give others the second chance, even someone who has ruined my life.

    Like (1)

  7. dollysworld - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by dollysworld Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:28AM

    I harbor pain because it was a crime.

    Like (1)

  8. intrepiddreamer - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by intrepiddreamer Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:26AM

    I'm working on it....it's difficult

    Like (1)

  9. amelia714 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by amelia714 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:25AM

    I can easily forgive small transgressions. It is the big ones that I have a hard time letting go of. I am learning to forgive, just taking me a very long time.

    Like (1)

  10. LysanderFremont - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by LysanderFremont Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:24AM

    ...
    50/50 on both ends. Hard feelings are not as... deep as they once were but I havn't completely released that person. Maybe I'm just waiting for something. Closure or some sort of... revelation of some sort. I don't know.

    Come back to me in three months and I'll give you a better answer.

    Like (1)

  11. dillanfire - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by dillanfire Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:23AM

    You only live once, why waste it on anger and hard feelings, move on to greater things.

    Like (1)

  12. Disparu - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Disparu Jan 2nd, 2013 at 11:23AM

    I'll always harbour a deep anguish for the way she hurt me.

    Like (1)

Ask A Question

Answers to questions are provided for entertainment purposes only. You should never use answers to questions provided here to replace professional advice, such as from a doctor or lawyer. This page is for providing answers to the question "Have you release or forgiven the one who hurt you, or do you still harbor pain amd hard feelings against the person?"