Having chemistry with people is very difficult to me and I don't know why.. Any advice?
Everybody says I'm sweet, nice and good person, and several people told me I like the majority of people.. But I don't feel good, because making friends is very difficult to me, I feel chemistry with few people.
I need some advice or a reason for this, i will be very grateful..
5 Answers to "Having chemistry with people is very difficult to me and I don't know why.. Any advice?"
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I am the same. It is because I don't have many things in common with people. To share the same interests with someone would cause a spark for me.
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It could be.. Thank you!
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maybe you should get tested for aspergers, i might have it and thats one of the symptoms
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I thought it before, but i'm not sure of that.. I should talk with a phsicologyst... Thank you!!
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If you are all you say you are someone is waiting for you.
Some day sometime when you least expect it love will find you.
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Thank you!!
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Don't rush it, somewhere out there that perfect guy is waiting. He may already know who you are but is too afraid to say anything and he will soon stay open to new friends
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You need I be genuinely interested in the notion of getting to know people.. Force a conversation of any kind to try and find some common ground to talk about... Usually if you have to go that far with a person to befriend them chances are its not meant to happen.. Push yourself into more social situations, surround yourself with interesting people, it's what we live for.
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I think you are closer to my experience... I know I need talk more instead smile each time I don't know what to say.. Thanks!
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Just be confident and everything else will come naturally :)
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by ImoraTheaMiSavur Mar 2nd, 2013 at 9:46PM
I have this same problem and its not a bad thing to feel that way. You have a few friends that your comfortable around and its not hard to be around other people its just odd to have chemistry with them. Think of this as one of your qualities. Your an awesome person, you just might be scared of getting close to people or have high standards for your closest friends. My best friend is someone completely opposite from me. Chemistry and friendship are just strange experiences.
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Reply by Daydrm22 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:24AM
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