He claims he loves me, why does he not want a relationship? after 2 years of us "being together"...guyss *sigh
i don't get it..each time i ask him why he doesn't want a relationship he says its because he's had unpleasant experiences with other girls he has had relationships with, but we've been doing our thing for 2 years..isn't that enough proof to convince him to try?..i keep coming up with the assumption that he doesn't want to commit to me because he has other girls he's dealing with...i don't know what to do
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Posted by JustPlainBarb Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:20AM
He's stringing you along. As long as you allow it .. he's going to do it.
If you want a relationship .. this isn't the guy for you.
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Reply by yettygurl Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:36AM
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Posted by Jodalbeane89 Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:15AM
men are weird. He sounds like an *** to me. Their are plenty of other men out their, that would treat you alot better.
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Reply by yettygurl Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:36AM
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Posted by Kel83 Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:14AM
He does not want a relationship? Move on.
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Posted by Pondskater1 Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:25AM
Read my latest story...I wrote it because I keep seeing sad tales like yours. A lot of people are "unavailable" by choice...you cant change that.
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Reply by yettygurl Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:38AM
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Posted by linklock Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:31AM
I am not sure love can be there without a relationship. He might love you being there for him but I do not see how he can be in Love with you.
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Posted by awasadaorang Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:28AM
Someone who truly loves you will do everything in his or her power to keep you.
This is obviously NOT a match made in heaven. Leave.
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Posted by sintobus Jan 17th, 2013 at 7:19PM
As a guy I am going to say he probably just doesn't want a relationship. If he can't work out his past experiences and won't talk about them it sounds like BS to me personally. I would not try to be with someone who knows that they don't want to be in one.
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Posted by ladybug89 Jan 17th, 2013 at 7:17PM
love is blind hunni, u cant see the bigger picture here, if he really did love you he wouldnt want u to be with anyone else and he would happily want to have a relationship with you! dont settle for a guy wont commit to u after 2 years!! thats ridiculious! u deserve better and in this case you need to think with your head, not your heart. dont worry, time heals all wounds and your heart will heal. he shouldnt even worry about other girls except you! trust me when i say this hun, because i have been in the exact same shoes as you, my friends have, and its not a suprise hes either scared of commitment to the max! or hes just not that into you. and what most people will also say, hes just stringing you along for the comfort of the ride so he can have other girls on the side too. he knows he will always have you to fall back on. WAKE UP SISTER!! love is not everything! it needs to be embrased in other ways! not just saying it. anyone can say those 3 little words. if he really ment it you 2 will be celebrating your anniversary this year. so sad so sad. move on!
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