He knows i like him but im not pushing for anything more but hes on guard all the time when im around. what to do?
6 Answers to "He knows i like him but im not pushing for anything more but hes on guard all the time when im around. what to do?"
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I'm that way to with women who have a thing for me if I'm not interested. My thinking is that that feeling is always there and driving them, it could make them do something crazy at any time like gossiping behind my back, getting jealous and becoming hostile maybe doing something against me for it and a host of other things. Because of this I avoid them like the plague.
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gossiping and getting jealous yes im guilty of that but not hostile. anyway thank you for the guy input. i saw him yesterday, we went out with friends and when we were done hanging out he asked me if i was riding or walking home. his house is just like one block away and id have a 3-block walk and i think he definitely did not want to walk another 2 blocks for me. so he really doesn't like me does it?
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I doubt he dislikes you and he probably likes the attention, he's just aware of how crazy some people are. Anything sexual will not only stir up those close to it but others as well, it has a way of arousing deep passions in others as well, some of whom might not be quite right i the head. It could make things rough on him so he wants to avoid that. Not so much a personal thing as it is a survival thing.
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help him feel safe and comfortable.... when he does, he'll drop his guard.
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Maybe that means he will not make the first move... so you should make it
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my first move was declaring to everyone i had a crush on him. it was a month long mind ****. he knows. im guessing he doesnt like me that much.
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Make your move, catch him off guard.
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I will have a hard time doing that, i think he has a radar that sounds off everytime im 50 feet away
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Sounds like it's time to make up your mind.
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i like him but if he wants to be just friends i can do that. he makes me feel like he doesnt want to be around me but everytime im there hes there and then he disappears and them comes back again all friendly.
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Posted by bookerdana Mar 14th, 2013 at 3:32AM
Make yourself ..much scarcer,at least for a bit,,,keep it real cool...sounds manipulative,i know but it kind of breaks up the current "dynamic"..just an idea
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Reply by SunSardonyx Mar 14th, 2013 at 3:40AM
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Reply by bookerdana Mar 14th, 2013 at 3:47AM
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