If love hasn't happened for you in four years, it's not likely to. It's unfair to him to keep him on the hook if you don't return his feelings. Be kind and let him go.
Pretty simple- try being honest. Quit wasting your time and his. He deserves someone that's going to return his love and you deserve to be with someone who isn't going to make you feel "awkward".
Humiliate him in public. Insult his manhood and intelligence in public.That should cure your problem.
It would allow him to stop thinking about you and look for love elsewhere.Like ripping a bandaid off.
Tell him the truth. Continue to be friends if he's react appropriately.
Looks like you are really attracting the men here young lady
I wouldn't tell him u do if u don't and I wouldn't try to force yourself to love him...I'd be honest say u don't love him but u still value as a part in your life and would like to remain friends :)
if he doesn't get all your clues, you might have to tell him. It'd probably be quicker anyway
four years is too long. Think about your own sanity over his feelings. He'll get over it.
I had the same problem .. but fortunaly I solved it , I started to ignore him I didn't answer his phone calls and i treated him like I don't even know who he is and it works =D .. trust me if you won't do these things he will never give up on you cause he will always feel like there is a hope . good luck
He's sexually harassing you. You'd be perfectly in the right to report him to the police.
There's no way NOT to hurt him, which sucks, because you did nothing wrong. It almost sounds to me like you'll have to end your relationship with him completely. If you stay friendly with him, this is giving him false hope. Good luck.
That makes it tougher still. Even so, I think an ultimatum would be the best approach. You tell HIM that you don't love him and the courting must stop. If it doesn't, the friendship MUST end. Let HIM make the choice on how to proceed. You don't need to be mean, but you MUST be firm, or you're back to square one.
I think you already know the answer to that question, but............ play!