i had this same problem this past week.. it'll get better... when u see him, talk to him again and he says im sorry say i forgive u and im sorry too. what can i do to make it better?
what happened with my guy is i thought he was cheeting on me.. and i talked to him about it and he got mad and upset because he thought i didnt trust him... good news is he wasnt... bad news he didnt want anything to do with me for a few days..
if u get into guy psychology a little bit it will be easier for you to understand. but thats how guys are taught, and its not open and sensitive. sorry i had to learn that one too. they are taught to "prove" themselves through actions and not feelings. they are taught that if they get hurt suck it up, be a man and go take care of it somewhere else (aka crying is a big one)... men believe that they are supposed to be the image of strength in both aspects of emotion and physical.. dont worry... hey what i tried was a peace offering. and it worked like a charm
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Sounds to me that he may feel that you have betrayed his trust in some way.
He pretended to be open and emotional but couldn't keep up the act. Once you saw what he was really like, he had to go.You're well rid of him.
Mmm, I know, been there. As I've got older, I seem to just shrug it off. Get out with your friends and have a lovely Christmas. (((Hugs)))
Kinda going through the same thing, except we never fought. He just cut me off so easily.
I don't know but it sucks. He's the one who wanted the relationship, too. Now I'm just lonely.
Looks like both of us have even larger trust issues now. I guess we're not alone. I just feel too old to be dealing with immature idiots.
Well, listen to this. I work in a hospital and I was floated to the emergency department last night. There was this couple who were in their late 30s and he was so attentive to his wife. They had been married for 15 years, had no children and were deeply in love. There are good guys out there, it's just going to be hell trying to find one of them.
But I still feel myself struggling to keep faith after what I went through this past month. I just hope I get through it or he comes back and apologizes. I thought he was one of the good ones. It was all just so random.
A good one would never treat me this way.