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He tells you his mind is messed up and needs some time and space to decide what he needs.

That he just doesn't think he can be in a relationship right now. Has he found someone else? Is it over between us? He does call every day still. Need some advice....

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11 Answers to "He tells you his mind is messed up and needs some time and space to decide what he needs."

  1. TwylaMarie - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by TwylaMarie Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:25AM

    If you love someone set them free. If they love you to they'll come back.

    (If they don't you can always shoot them later and bury them under the floorboards)

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  2. oldfarmguy - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by oldfarmguy Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:24AM

    Yup, he wants to use someone else for a trampoline.

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  3. luvsall3232 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by luvsall3232 Mar 21st, 2012 at 11:12AM

    Its over, face it and stop being so needy, move on.

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  4. srslydoomed - 26-30 years old

    Posted by srslydoomed Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:37AM

    don't listen to these people! you gotta take what you want,when you want it! nag him! nag him till his ears bleed! if he tries to walk away, follow him while calling his cell -if he's a gentleman, he'll pick up and you can nag him in stereo! say it in the mirror for practice till he calls again: "you're mine! you belong to me! there's nobody else there for you but your momma, and she don't want you!"

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  5. inexplicableromance - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by inexplicableromance Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:35AM

    When I've said that to someone, I'm just trying to soften the blow. It's not that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you . Do you honestly think if he ran across a woman who blows his mind ,he would pass it up because he's "all messed up"? I'm sure he'd get his mind right then.

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  6. srslydoomed - 26-30 years old

    Reply by srslydoomed Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:39AM

    truth.

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  7. LennonLover - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by LennonLover Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:32AM

    I got those same words in my last brake up. He's a coward and doesnt want to be the bad guy that breaks up with you. Eventually he'll start blaming you for things. Make you feel like ****. You'll prob even doubt yourself. He's trying to drive you to say the final words. Just end it now. If he's not sure now he'll never be. Atleast thats what i think. It happened to me.

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  8. firstminister - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by firstminister Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:29AM

    Dump him

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  9. roseyvonne - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by roseyvonne Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:23AM

    Let him be... If you still wanna wait for him it'll be up to you at the end...

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  10. KingofSwords - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by KingofSwords Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:21AM

    Leave him alone. Let him straighten out his mind and his feelings. The more you push him, the more he will block and run from you. I think it is time you dated someone else. I don't think you should hold your breath for this guy.

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  11. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:19AM

    Unless you have reason to believe otherwise, I would take what he has said at face value.

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  12. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Posted by justkoz Mar 21st, 2012 at 10:18AM

    Some people just want to talk to someone. It doesn't sound like he is in a relationship with anyone else if he is talking to you.

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