He told me that he went to see his ex girlfriend more then once!?
I know how this works, and if I was to see my EX there would be no possible way that we could just talk as friends bc after you have been with someone for so long , there is no way (my logic). So this guy I've been with for about a month, who really does seem to care and give an actual sh*t about me, told me that he went several times to see his ex (for a coffee). He said that nothing happened and they just talked bc she is going through some "personal" family stuff. Ok I get that they were together for 4 years but I told him that this bothered me and I'm not ok with it, just like he wouldn't be if it was me seeing my ex. I'm not a jealuse type of a person and I cleared that out to him, I'm just not going to let someone make an idiot out of me. He said that he wont see her anymore if it bothers me but I wont know will I? Is it possible that they really JUST TALKED? I don't know what to think bc he has been really nice and gentle with me and gave me no reason to doubt him.