Hello. I am 24 years old with a career and a relationship issues with my mom. Am I the problem or is it her?
I moved out 5 months ago on my own. At the age of 24, I finally decided to be independent which i think is not bad since I am getting old and the fact that I can support myself. Moving out, taught me the importance of my relationship with my mom hence I started opening up to her. I used to not tell her any of my life story or not even open up to her and be affectionate. Now that I am, she doesn't seem to care.
She tells me she sent me to college, but I am still not successful. I understand I can be more successful, but she doesn't see that I am happy with the job and with my earnings, which she even tells me I earn more than her.
I got engaged for Christmas and of all the people I thought she would be happy for me, but I don't see that from her. She tells me my fiance should be able to support me financially and she still wonders that he might be just taking advantage of me. She doesn't see that my fiance is a very family oriented, Godly, and a hard-working man. My fiance has tau