go mini golfing. It is public, and can go at a slow pace throughout while talking.
whatever you do make sure it is in a publc place, with tons of witnesses during the daylight hours. Psycho serial killer stalkers will drive 4 hours to see you, ok? Be safe!
here's hoping he's not some old creep
Please do be careful and learn from my mistake. Don't let him come to your home and do not go to his grandmas.... Meet in a public place. People can be deceiving and put on a good front. The only and last time I ever met someone from online I was raped and he had lied about his age by 7 years as well as left out he had a 10 year old child. As for date ideas there tons of stuff, bowling, golfing, movies, museums/art galleries, parks. Just make sure you meet in the daytime and keep it fun and lighthearted.
Go see a movie and have dinner together. Nothing scary or anything that would attack your nerves (no suspense or anything like that). A comedy would be good. I'd stay away from Romantic/Comedies. That would be a good 2nd or 3rd date. Romance movies are also out as it might put pressure on him.<br />
Without knowing where your from, picking destinations for outings is hard. Where I'm from there are lots of historic areas to explore.<br />
You can also go for walks (if he gets there too early for movies)<br />
Hope those help.
Why would you trust a stranger like that? O.o