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He's not ready?

My boyfriend i broke up about 6 weeks ago. We see each other about once a week now. I still want to be with him and he knows that. He tells me he loves me so much and wants to be with me and has not been with other girls since the break up. But, he says he's "not ready for a relationship right now" after we dated a year. He says once the school year is over we WILL be back together if we arent before then but he has to "figure himself out first" I still love him but i am so confused. Help?
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Run away. When someone says they are not ready for a relationship yet it means they are looking for a better one and are hoping to keep you on the back burner just in case. Don't settle for that.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 5:08PM
Sounds like he is straight. If you are female then he is gay.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 1:56PM
I can see why this is worrying you, but you need to ask yourself do you trust him?
If so give him time, sometimes for things to work patience is needed...perhaps he just needs to get thingsin to perspective.
If he is stressed at the moment, removing your relationship temporarily, might be the opnly way to clear his overcrowded mind.
If you feel that he is taking to long, or that he is seeing other woman then, is uggest that you leave before he hurts you further, what he is saying could just as easily be lies as the truth... don't jump to any conclusions, don't put pressure on him quite yet, just keep the lines of communication open.
But ultimately, trust yout intuition.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 2:31PM
RUN.....leave dat fool!
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 2:52PM
Although none of us can know for certain, I am betting that BassPlayer nailed it. Briefly, give your ex the benefit of the doubt. Before you move on, I would ask him to define exactly what he means by "figure himself out first". I would not settle for anything less than a thorough, respectable answer. If he cannot or will not define for you what this means, just accept the fact that the relationship is indefinitely over. Seeing that he has used words to place you on hold by stating a sort of future, quasi comittment, he owes you at least this token to hold you where you are IMO. Respect yourself. Let this boy know that you may or may not be available next summer.
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