Stop letting it get you pissy. He will notice. I thought you and him were going to talk as adults about some of this stuff?

We keep answering your questions for you about this guy, and you keep coming back with more. Listen to me kiddo: Eventually you are going to have to answer on of these yourself. You even gave me 'Best Answer' for one of them, so I feel like the family counselor at this point.

This seems really simple to me, he is just using you as a supply when he wants some!
Lies in any relationship are destructive and worse yet in the primary intimate relationship of your life. He is married? wow you thnk he is lying to you. what about his wife and family.
At this stage you can make a choice to accept him as he is and stop wondering or break loose and allow yourself to find a partner who is single and honest and sincere.

He's not going to care no matter how many different ways you tell him he hurts you. If he cared he would be calling and not on his myspace. If he doesn't make you a priority don't waste your time trying to make him consider you as one cause if it hasn't happened by now it's not going to hun, sorry. Take things at face value, guys aren't that complicated.

Sorry to put it this way but he doesn't care .If he did you would be his number 1 priority.Move on

Why do you ask so many questions here about him? Can't you predict by now what kind of answers you'll get?

You and his wife need to work out a joint custody arrangement so he knows exactly who he is supposed to be cheating on when.

GET ON HIS MYSPACE BLOG AND CHAT WITH HIM TO SEE HOW HE REACTS. (GL)

change your number and get him out of your life

OK here's my take on this. I looked at your profile and read both stories. I see someone (you) that is looking for that ever lasting love story that you feel you need to be your life. When you first hooked up again with him, it wasn't just friendship that you were looking for but maybe to rekindle that love that you had with him, way back when. That love was real and pure in your eyes because it also had friendship with that person.

I don't know why you got a divorsed your husband but you were looking for that friendship that your ex couldn't suppy you with. You sought out the one person that you had both love and friendship with.

Have you ever thought to yourself that maybe, just maybe he got reacquainted ( ;-) ) with you because he just wanted something on the side to make himself feel more in control of his life. Maybe just maybe he isn't fully satisfied with his sex life so he is using you to fullfill his fantisies.

He acts all jelous because he sees you looking at others because he's afraid that you will end your sexual affair with him nad he will have to admit that he's not all that great a lover as, in his own mind, he is.

To be blunt...Lady pull your head out and smell the coffee. You are being used and as long as you allow yourself to be his mistress and not his partner you are just spinning your wheels. Confront him with the fact that neither of you are getting any younger and you need some stability in your life (i.e. a full time partner and not just a part time lover).

Maybe before you continue with this relationship, you need to examine the whys and what nots that caused your marriage to fail. Maybe if you finally realize why that one failed, you will finally see what makes you so driven to keep this affair going with him.