Never, if a men needs me to dumb myself down for him to feel more 'macho', he doesn't deserve the time of day. Nada, I'd rather spoon out my eyes than make myself look stupid just to attract a man.
I used to do that, but then I realized if I dumb it down, not only am I lying about who I am, I'm cheating myself. I don't want to date an idiot. If he can't keep up with me, thats his loss. He should visit a library sometime. I'll stay true to myself. Smart is sexy. That's kind of why I'm still single. I won't settle for these idiots that keep coming on to me. "Hey baby, talk nerdy to me"
As a guy, I can honestly I think it would be rather refreshing to have a partner I did not feel like I had to suppress a great deal of my intelligence to have a conversation with her.
I have never felt that way. I like an intelligent man who I can have a conversation with
Yes thats it & we like you too...;)
Not on your life....
Definitely not! i'm the queen of trying to outsmart people, and any guys i'm with have to accept that lol
I'd like to think that the hypothetical "he" would want a stimulating conversation instead of just eye candy. I can honestly say that any girl willing to dumb herself down to attract a guy has serious self esteem issues and someone just needs to let her know that she's beautiful and has no reason to think differently.
No way! Then I wouldn't be staying true to myself. That's like self-disrespect.
Never!! I'm proud to be smart!! I'm tall and blonde and I take pride in my appearance. I hate it when people just assume I'm "dumb" cause of how I look, love seeing their faces when I tell them i have a degree in biology! <br />
Girls should never dumb themselves down I honestly don't understand the attraction in it, and most men I know/have dated could never go out with a bimbo
No way! <br />
He either loves me for who I am or he can do one!
Nah. Being able to talk to a guy and hold a decent conversation is vital to me. That's not possible if he looks down on me.
hell no! never have, never would. and the type of guys i like would never want me to.
No, I would never. Why would a person do that? If a guy can't engage me intellectually, I want nothing to do with him. I like men who are smarter than me.
I don't and I do feel that it intimadates men when they met me sometimes as I am very confident and decisive about what I do and do not do or like. It does turn them off , oddly enough I have younger men more apt to want to talk to me and that makes me a cougar. I really don't take advantage of this however.
shows that society is progressing, they young men today know a LOT more about life than their brain washed predecessors.
Ahhh, so right. I adore the younger man.These men have manners, their likable and usually pretty handsome. I just can't wrapemy head around the flab he would see on myarm, I can't do it I am one self concious Lady. I need a richman a Big Daddyto get plasic surgery. I do get carried away...~never mind~
If I gotta dumb it down I am not attracted to him so no
No.I cant dumb it down,,,,there wouldnt be much left...lol.I am me if he doesnt like me,,,then...well...theres nothing else I can do,
Why would I want to attract a DIM WIT? <br />
~ confused ~
Ironic! Sorry I'll leave you ladies to it and watch from the background.
Haha touche. I just thought it was funny since girls usually go for complete knobs (probably why you gotta dumb it down :P)
Ohhhhh sassy :P
if i wasnt aromantic id be better equipped with the experience and knowledge with which to answer your question.
I read 'aromatic' (and thought you were referring to smelling nice) instead of 'a romantic'. So maybe I don't need to dumb down much after all!
lol its not A romantic - its aromantic (arrow-mantic). it means that i have no desire for any type of relationship; sexual or non.
Haha, I'm so dumb I can't even dumb it down right! I like the word though - I think I might be aromantic too...
heheh keep trying - youll get there eventually XD