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Hey guys i wanna die coz i m a failure..i dont even drive a car properly..my mom thinks i want her dead ..?

she doesnt like me ..her bro was bad to her n she thinks i vil b d same to my sisters..my father thinks i cant earn money n i m feminine..i hav no frnds wid whom i can share my feelings..i am 19 n never had a girlfriend..should i die?
Posted 4 months ago
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Has your mum told you that stuff, or are you building it up in your head because you're depressed? If she really did say all that, it seems that the problem is hers, not yours. It's possible she's just wary because she had such a bad time with your uncle and in time you will be able to prove her wrong. As for 19 and no girlfriend - so what? I didn't have a partner until I was 19 either. There are a lot of amazing guys out there who might be seen as 'feminine' - are you feminine because you have a slight figure or don't go in for butch sports? Also, earning money is tough for everyone in the current climate. Just be yourself and give yourself a break. Don't talk about dying. Be strong and ignore those who judge you.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 3:04PM
Baby just hold on life will eventually be ok....I know it seems like its not right now, but just step back take a breath and know that you are gonna be ok! Hugs im here if you ever need to vent :)
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 3:05PM
Nope. You should stop trying to please your family. Be yourself , and it may take you a while to figure out who that is! Just don't let your family rule your feelings- it will be very liberating.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 10:29AM
No.
Now pop on over to confessions and You can get some more advice. First up, Speak english, It's hard to understand. I understand you're going through a difficult time, but please at least try to use full words.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 3:30PM
When you're at your lowest point in life, there's no direction to go but up.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 8:19PM
Since your family does not appreciate you as they should it is time to get away as far as you can. Go forth to a new place and give yourself a real chance to work, play and generally make of your life what you can without all that negativity.

eep in mind we all have things in life we are not good at but we also have many many more at which we can achieve good things if we set our minds to them. You just need to be able to try and your present situation is not helping.
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 8:42PM
You are so young, and so am I... I have known people who killed themselves because their life seemed hopeless, but now that I look back at it I think, so much could have changed, they were so young and had their whole lives ahead of them!
You probably have other reasons to be wishing this but I couldn't drive a car properly a few months ago either, it's all a matter of learning, it can be frustrating but trust me, you will get there.
Just don't lose hope, please. Things will get better eventually
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Posted Jul 16th, 2009 at 10:19PM
I didn't get a boyfriend until I was 19 either, and that's just luck. We're probably going to break up soon and then I won't have a real boyfriend for years after. Who knows.

I never really had a close, knows-all-my-secrets friend for most of my life. I make do with people who will just go out places with me once in a while. Those friends that you're dreaming of? They're on the horizon.

If you cut out now, you'll just close off the possibilities. If you think that this is as bad as it gets, then that means it can only get better.

Take it from every kid who can't make their family/parents happy--your family/parents aren't perfect and they don't know what kind of person you really are. If it takes blaming them to keep you going, then do it. They're the ones who don't appreciate you. They're the ones crowding you. They're the ones making you feel crappy. Screw them--make yourself happy.

Just start looking now for ways to get yourself out of this place. You don't owe it to them to prove yourself if they won't believe you. The only person you need to make happy is yourself. (Cars are overrated anyway--most people can't drive for ****.)

In the end, the truth is, if you aren't proud of yourself, other people won't be. So make yourself proud first before you start trying to make your family proud.

You can do this.
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Posted Jul 18th, 2009 at 3:52AM
hey dude!u shouldnt die..i mean we all face hard time sin our lives..i mightnt know exactly wat ur goin through...i definatly know for sure that its not worth dying for..just relax..and bare with the situation a little bit longer...im sure tings will eventually come to terms...
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