I've faced the same here and usually a couple of beers makes me feel better!!!
Its Really tough to get over some one you love... life is very confusing and your Flooded with emotions... that its hard to understand How some one you love so Much can break your Heat... because then you think what is love and what the Point of falling in love...
my bottom line, Well Guys are stupid.
If I could Find a Girl like that I would never let her Go!!! BUT To answer your question... its because Guys think with there "other head".. and they let that, and Media Get to them that they can life a life like a Party...
Oh Absolutely!!! I am a believer that you merry your bestfriend, Because you build that Trust, honesty that you can be open to that Person! And there are no secrets and there is No reason to be your Self.. because your Best friends knows you and you know them and thats a key to a strong relation ship!!
Ha I about to give up too!!! I have one Rule Be your self and For some odd reason no girl can meet that standered. And I dont understand WHY and it iritates me! that I feel Like I became an exprt about Relation ships... So if you ever would like to Talk about anything on your mind Just send me a message! :-D
I would like a Girl who weres Make up For her self because She herslefs wants to make her self be beautiful, And as for me I would naturaly want to look good for her... But some thing that bother me about girls is the Games they play... like if I liked you and you like me, I would still have to find a way to get you to give me your #... and that is one game I dont like... But Guys are also usally A holes... And they cant put there mind set on the Right track to understand what they have in Front of them.... and they are not quite to understand how much it means to a Girl about there Hearts because we have to play as we are not emotionally attached.
LOL you sound like me! Lol! :-D
Well my simple answer is Guys are Stupid, a holes and Some times I think girls are dumb for being being so Venerable... But its Really not your Fault to Fall in love no one can help there Feelings.. that guys play with Girls Hearts, because guys dont understand the meaning of love... :-(
He Dumped you... :_( And its horrible because you, wish and want that same loyalty to you the same honisty and Dedication that you Gave your bf... and when you need him... hes not there For you... and turns in a Different Direction... and you feel like your were abandon.. and lost because the same favors was not given to you?
Honest girls are hurt because they are honest.. Try to ignore him.. Show him your ignorance.. He will burn or he will be back to you.. If you are to accept him,then be conditioned,show your anger but accept him...
You will find someone better that deserves you. You will look back and realize what a loser he is.
Hi. I am sorry you were hurt. Time is the only healer for the kind of wounds you have experienced. Friendships can be like a salve that helps take away the acute pain.
Relationships are hard. They take work. They don't ever happen by magic. Growing is painful. It will not take too long before you recognize that you were wasting your time with him. But, it will take time for you to trust again, because we have a natural aversion to being hurt. Sometimes girls get past this by setting themselves up to be used by many guys. That doesn't help or work. It is destructive.
You can learn a lot from this experience. Be honest with yourself. Look at the relationship and ask yourself if there were things that would have made you "dump him" long before he dumped you. What did you overlook that was rude and inconsiderate? What did you accept because "he is a guy and that is what guys do?"
Guys are as different from one another as girls are from each other. What attracted you to him? Did those things become frustrating later? Even though opposites attract, they often drive each other nuts after the attraction phase. It might be better to find a guy more like you and find ways to enjoy being yourself with him. There won't be the same fire as when you get with an opposite, but there will be peace and contentment.
The most important thing you can do with this is to learn from it. You are wise to ask for input like this, as you get so many perspectives. There might be a grain of useful truth in my response, or in the response of others. Take the truth and appreciate the rest.
Everybody has a different way of helping. Sometimes we draw on our own experiences. Most people who respond, in our own ways, want to help you avoid unnecessary pain. Sadly, as humans, we think everyone experiences life as we do. But we are all unique. Men get hurt by women in equal numbers to women getting hurt by men and probably shut down more. Women are good at expressing themselves.
You will probably get hurt again as you move along, because men and women have different priorities and needs. At the same time, you have learned so much from what you experienced that you will be wiser with the next man you allow close to your heart. It is surprising that we can bounce back after hurt, but we do so much better with someone with whom to share life.
I would be glad to be your friend and answer anything you care to ask me.
Just make sure you keep on moving forward in your life. Change can be a good thing. Look for ways you were also ready for a change, even if it is hard. Usually a girl recognizes some things she would rather not see. I think you added me as a friend, so look for an email from me.
I was going to message you privately, but your restrictions only let you receive messages and whiteboard posts from people in your circle. It won't let me add you to mine. As I went to message you I saw that an old B/F put a pic of you with him on his facebook. Sometimes guys don't get over girls as easily as you might suppose. Sometimes our egos get hurt and we put up a wall, and then we think later about what is gone.
I would like to know more about you (safe stuff, I promise).
What do you really value in a relationship with a boyfriend/lover/potential spouse? What makes one guy worth your trouble and another guy an obvious waste of time? How drawn are you to "bad boys?" Are they the ones that give you the most trouble? Are there things about guys that you just don't get and wish someone would explain to you?
What famous guy appeals the most to you (do you have a secret crush on someone famous)?
You look like a very pleasant and pleasing person in your profile, if that is your pic. I like the color you chose. I would call it a shade of purple as a male, but as a male who thinks he knows more, I think it might be lavender?
Again, time will heal, but you have to be proactive, too. Find other people to enjoy, especially guys. I mean as friends, of course. But get into their heads, their hearts. They will tell you a lot if you let them.
I hope you will want to add me.
You have a picture in your mind of how a man should act towards you. You can't control how other people behave. Love is an illusion and that's why people become disillusioned and the 'love' turns to hate. Its all crap. If your boyfriend treated you badly, be glad that you are rid of him and let someone else have the pleasure of his nastiness.
You just move on. I suppose it's easier said than done because I haven't ever been in love been when a dude HAS hurt me, I just keep walking and never look back.
It'd save you alot of hurt and pain. Do you think he's thinking about you? No. So do the same.
Some guys do that. If he DOES approach you, I'd take care to NOT allow him back into your life. If you can't see yourself with this guy long-term, why waste your time? Keep walking. :) And I'm sorry. I'm sure you'll find a new guy soon. :(
The same with me...lol.
I'm a female. And I don't let anyone walk all over me. They know not to push my buttons, male and female. Females are stupid with letting good guys go to, you know.
2 or 3 years is about the time one partner or both of them get tired of each other if is not going to work out so he is on time
it all ways hurts when you trust is broken by a so called boy friend you just keep looking for a better person to date good luck
Spend time with friends. Best way to forget about him, really.
Not just girls, heh. I had my heart torn out aswell recently. Just find strenght in the comfort of your friends. It really helps.
Can't disagree with that, most people are indeed A-holes. Kind and honest people are simply easy to take advantage of, sadly. Just don't let that bring your spirit down. You'll meet an honest and caring guy sooner or later. And he'll be yours, yours alone, till the end of times.
It's never funny to get hurt. Just don't let it get to you. You deserve to be happy and all that. Smile and keep smiling! And don't change, the world needs more people like you.
Exactly! It's a new beginning to a brighter future! And yep, no one's the same. That counts for both genders. Just stay true to yourself. Someone will see just how precious you are and he'll take good care of you.
I can't answer that, really. Then again, I'm not like most guys. Or so I've been told. I just think it's because they're young. They want to have fun, explore many things. Even if one of those things are different female bodies. That's just my thoughts about it, I really have no idea why on earth they'd screw up something so precious.
I say young because the majority of people still don't act mature around our ages. They're still busy experimenting and things like that. Can't deny there are a few gems in there though.
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