How should i break up with him?

Just tell him its over, no hard feelings, don't call me anymore. AND MEAN IT. Don't take his calls- or even maybe change your number. When its over, let it be OVER. If you see each other at social functions, be civil and have good manners, but don't engage in much conversation. dragging it out seldom works.

Oh...I'm in the same situation. I know it's not easy but you just have to be strong and do what is good for yourself. Maybe, make sure that one of your bestfriends comes with you, to give you some back bone because if he starts making promises again, your friend can help you not falling into them. I'm in that situation right now, where I'm about to break up with someone and it's hard because sometimes they are sweet and tell me sweet things but they also cheated on me and I think, that's a reason enough, no matter what promises they will make. Tell him, he has hurt you too much and you don't trust him anymore but you would like to stay friends.

From a guy that was nearly driven to kill myself over a breakup, Allow me to suggest don't do it over the phone or by letter.In person is the way to go. Granted he doesn't deserve a lot of consideration but ask yourself how you'd want to be 'let go'

Quickly and concisely. Just tell him it's over, please don't call me anymore. If he has been cheating on you a majority of your time together he won't be surprised.

Tell him you can't trust him because of his numerous lies. Trying to remain friends with him probably won't work. He'll most likely continue to lie and impress you until he gets you back.

Just say that although i love you (if you do, that is), i love me more. I do not deserve this and obviously you are not ready to be with just one woman at this moment. You can make a million promises, but you have not once fallen through on any of them.

breaking up with someone who u share freinds with is way harder then if u didn't.. just flat out tell him that u just want to be friends.. staying with him will just only hurt u more.. u know u can't trust him.. n if he's not giving u any reason to trust him then he's still cheating on u.. n u shouldn't be with him.. people are going to keep doing things to u good or bad when u let them do it.. i'm not saying that u let him cheat on u.. but by taking him back that puts it in his head that he can do whatever.. because u'll always take him back.. i'd say get rid of his ***! he's the one who broke ur trust so he shouldn't be secretive.. i bet ur the one who's trying to keep ur relationship.. ur the only one who's fighting for ur relationship when he's acting that way.. believe me i know.. i've been there.. done that.. just do what's best for u.. n kick his *** to the curb..lol good luck!

you need to be firm. you DESERVE better than this man-tart!
hes broken promises to you before, that should be enough of an initiative to not take him seriously again.
get out there and find mr.treat-you-right :)

Realize a couple of things:
1. the breakup needs to be direct and to the point, don't be subtile, don't try to be easy. Men understand direct.
2. don't have any expectations about being friends, if you do, that's ok, if not, that's ok too.

1) Find courage

2) Figure out what you want to say to him

3) Tell him

4) Ask him how he feels

5) Trust him

*Every response on relationship problems I've answered with this response. It's really not hard, I mean for christ sakes your talking to another human being. It's not like your trying to figure out quantum mechanics.