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I hate having things left unsaid to those I love yet how can I say them if the ones I love wont listen?
ymoren21 ymoren21 18-21, F 18 Answers Nov 11, 2012 in Family Struggles

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send a song-a-gram

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ha that would be interesting

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just refrain from stalking, ok?

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haha i aint got the time to stalk

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I hate to tell you its because to them what you say is irrelevant . obviously you are not a productive member of the family

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hahaha wow thats a great answer. hahahaha anyways down to the point.... I know why they dont listen, thats not the issue. the issue is getting them to listen.

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is it really that important ? I don't like to see you wasting time over this , I think I saw where you don't live with them ?

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I've seen that so many times. the worst thing about people who wont/dont take advice is that you care

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if it wasnt important I wouldnt be trying. period. and no they are in Texas. look I dont ususally talk about it but my parents are both very sick and my older brother and sisterright under me have no idea. they have cut off ties with the family for their own reasons. but they need to know about this. I am the second oldest of 8 its my older brother me then the sister that also cut communication and then the rest. It is my job to make sure they know.

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ok now i understand sorry to hear about your parents

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thank you and ya its just one of thosethings... trust me I wouldnt bother if it wasnt serious

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Ok I see your point perfectly

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yea now jut to get the jobdone

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Send them a letter. (Be sure to include diagrams drawn in crayon to help them be able to follow the talking points.)

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hahaha

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talk loudly or scream.

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na that makes things worse

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Since it seems you've already stated your " feelings " in an opinion sharing setting and you feel they weren't listing......... it seems to me the only other step is to just stand up for your opinion / feelings and teach them to have no other choice but to accept how you feel. <br />
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I like the writing idea's too though. Maybe in writing and individually they would be more apt to " hear " you. <br />
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Do make them your thoughts as to each individual and how they are responsible for how you feel. No blanket letters. <br />
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It's not a perfect world, is it kiddo ?

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na I havent been able to tell them they never show up or just dont respond to my calls and messages

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Ahh, my mistake. Then I think the letter idea is really awesome. Good luck to you.

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You can't. let it be.

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if there is one thing I know it is where there is a will there is a way

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They don't seem te agree.

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trap them in a car with you driving. take the long way home.

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haha

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write it down

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yea I might do that one someone else mentioned this too

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which opinion is that? there are some opinions that you're better off keeping to yourself.

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more like my feelings how I feel. It has everything to do with how they make me feel its complicating.

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leave voicemails..

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my brother changes his number so much idk how thatll work haha

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Do you talk or shout...?...i'm asking coz when people shout i switch off ... sounds like a nightmare.

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Talk shouting only causes more issues

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Take them to lunch. They'll listen.

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right One issue I now lie in Fl and they are still in Tx

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If you can't travel to talk to them in person, telephone, text message, email or write a letter. If they refuse to listen to you when you try to voice your opinion, then what more can you do? Let go of your obsession to be heard and move on with your life. Maybe some day things will be different but for now you've tried your best and you can be pleased with yourself for that.

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its not an obsession its something they needto know. I dont have time to wait

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Okay, it's not an obsession ... good luck ymoren21!

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tell me when it came to someones health and informing others. I would think it would be a priority to anyone

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