How are you supposed to feel when your spouse talks about their ex with you?
Please read first for more detail. At the end of a long day, just the 2 of you. Suddenly the ex is subtly, but undeniably inserted into the conversation. Yeah, there's a place and time for it by the standards for meeting 'maturity'. And feeling irritated by it can mean you have quite a lot of growing to do if you're playing the game. However, is it quite unusual to feel irritated at your spouse to assume that you were on some kind of 'need to know basis' about such matters? Would you feel that it was inaccurate for them to asssume that you might respond with an understanding smile and fondly recall the memory with them?
I didn't care to know. I also find it quite irritating.