men are idiots. maybe hes scared not ready for a baby. will he talk about this with you. i think there mite be an underlying reason why he is doing this
At 15 they both are very young, he is probably feeling very frightened and confused as she most certainly is. Boys at that age are easily confused between sex and love and so are girls. He may care for her but he is to young to know what love really means and is to young to take on that responsibility. They are going to have to make decisions together regarding the child and talk with both their parents. Help and guidance on how to deal with this pregnancy is something your friend is going to need. Whether the boy choses to have anything to do with the child or her doesn't mean he doesn't have a responsibilty towards providing financially for the child in any way he can...I wish your friend the best of luck.
Becoming a parent while still a child does that to people.
That doesn't sound like love to me. But if he is as young as she is it could be that the thought of being a father freaked him out and he just didn't know what to do. Of course he should have thought of the possibility of fatherhood when he had sex with the girl.
Maybe once he gets over the shock he will come back and be a father to his baby. If he doesn't though tell your friend that she needs to make sure that he at least accepts financial responsibility for his baby. She may have to take him to court to get child support but he should not be allowed to just walk away scott free and leave her with having to deal with everything by herself.
The answer is obvious, you can't do both.
You need to accept this and move forward.
maybe its all too real to him you know...with her being pregnant and all he's about to be a father
Just another irresponsible, selfish ***** donor
can the girl walk away
Talk is Talk. it's really that simple.
If he REALLY loved you - he wouldn't do something like walking away from the woman carrying his child, or walk away from his child.
If someone walked up to you and told you that you look like Barack Obama....would you believe it just because they "said it"??