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How can a person stop loving someone, and stop hurting over the loss of that person in their life?

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  1. chie5189 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by chie5189 Jun 8th, 2012 at 10:54AM

    Lady A:

    There is no true answer, each individual person must experience the hurt, the pain, the loss for themselves.

    You must face the hurt, the pain, and loss at the time rather than isolate, hideaway, be in denial, you have to move through and pass it. Unfortunately its Father TIME that heals!

    As you write, talk and discuss it openly you are working through the tremendous PAIN. Its a must that you face it or it will face you again, and again and again through other addictions, incidents, and moments.

    I am here to support you Lady A!

    Through the fire
    To the limit, to the wall
    For a chance to be with you
    I'd gladly risk it all
    Through the fire
    Through whatever, come what may
    For a chance at loving you
    I'd take it all the way
    Right down to the wire
    Even through the fire.
    ~ Through The Fire by Chaka Khan

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  2. Seekingadvise - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Seekingadvise Jun 5th, 2012 at 5:28AM

    I don't think you can ever stop loving someone instantly. Love is an overwhelming experience. And the pain of loosing them doesn't get easier but you learn to cope with it. Your a strong woman!! You will get through this hun. Hope your ok :) x

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  3. Arelya - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Arelya Jun 5th, 2012 at 4:28AM

    you don't. unless it's a breakup. if it's not a loss from death then it will fade eventually.

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  4. AnnieLor - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by AnnieLor Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:32AM

    No, its not a death...Its a breakup. I know it is similar to death, but when living in the same town and having the chance to run into him makes it difficult to let go. It's still so fresh, I know time will make it fade. Thank you :)

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  5. Arelya - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Arelya Jun 5th, 2012 at 10:37AM

    you're welcome and i'm sorry. i hope the pain fades away soon, i know this kind of pain too. be kind to yourself whatever you do, xx

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  6. Englishgent1970 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Englishgent1970 Jun 5th, 2012 at 12:10AM

    god knows ..cause i sure don't! its a source of constant horribleness!
    good luck

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  7. AnnieLor - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by AnnieLor Jun 5th, 2012 at 12:13AM

    So, it's hopeless? I know this happens to everyone at some point in their life. The pain is unbearable!

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  8. Englishgent1970 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by Englishgent1970 Jun 5th, 2012 at 11:06PM

    No it's not hopeless ! It is difficult, at times unbearable...But eventually we will move past the pain, be stronger and live a better life ! :) ...talking helps i find .. if you need to let me know :)

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