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I am in an all-girls school and so I've never been around boys much, plus I'm quite an introvert myself. I fail miserably at socializing with guys, never mind flirt or show interest. How can I step out of my comfort zone and start being a bit more social without seeming too desperate? (Ps: I am very, VERY insecure)
HonestBear HonestBear 16-17, F 5 Answers Jun 29 in Dating & Relationships

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All I can say to you is that guys don't bite ... Think of it like going into a cold swimming pool ... you'll be uncomfortable for a few minutes and then things will be great afterwards.

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But unfortunately I don't even know how to step into that cold swimming pool, I get so insecure at the slightest chance of interaction with males and I completely back out of it or act like an idiot :/

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Yes. Worse sometimes because an emotional affair is much harder to end and/or stop and/or forget about.

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If you are female... Then you pretty much can't so anything wrong.

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I have the same issue))) Im very open minded but when it comes to actually approaching , not easy)))

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Exactly, I'm very open minded and easy to talk to but the first approach is the issue.

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First of all, you have to be confident, we like confidence in girls. Be relaxed and do not sound too desperate. Joke around a little, humor is always good and If you're into sports, thats a plus point for you... haha! Good luck.. Now, How can I approach girls?

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I guess I could try to joke around and take it easy, but that's only if I managed to approach someone I'm interested in to begin with. I could be smart or funny sometimes, but not when I'm in front of a guy I'm interested in :/
And to answer your question: be funny, confident in a reasonable amount, interesting and interested in whatever she has to say. Best of luck!

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