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11serine 11serine 22-25, F 11 Answers Jan 18, 2013 in Dating & Relationships

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Leave him. Take the blackmail hit. Reveal to all that he blackmailed you.

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i dnt wanna take chance, since it may affect ma whole family.

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Don't sacrafice yourself for your mistake. Better to take the hit when it is revealed and then start anew beggining then have it hang around your neck for the rest of your life.

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i wanna follow what u said now.... but its too late....
am trying to lave this... am seeking soln based on experience.

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There are 'clever' ways out of this. It would really be worth talking to your mother about this... she is probably much wiser to the ways of the world, especially your local community, and is probably just as keen as you to avoid any shame on your Uncle's family.<br />
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Sounds like this guy can not be trusted and will only be bad news for the whole family in the end... if you gang together to solve this I'm sure you can find an answer together.

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yeah..... its d only and toughest way.....
Am seeking Lord to help me...

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I might know nothing about your situation, but I can tell you right now that any single human being, including this boyfriend, is more suited to help you...

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Sounds like a great time for you to quietly pack a bag and catch a bus to visit a relative who isn't close to your parents and lives a very long way away. Once you get there and stay long enough to be sure you aren't walking into a new set of problems, ask nicely if you can stay long enough to find a job and get your own place. Sometimes you just have to make your own life.

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Run far, run fast, but RUNNNNN!!!!!

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poor thing. I was in the same position once and a few months after black mailing me into a relationship he became physically abusive. It will only get worse talked to your loved ones let them know what is going on and get that loser out of your life before anything worse happens. good luck!

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yeah.. ma dad is so sensitive. i cant share. i wish everything finishes soon.

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if you tell your "boyfriend" that you over it you are fine with whatever your secret is and that it doesn't bother you if people know as long as you don't have to be with him he won't tell anyone. If he thinks it won't bother you he won't say a peep. That is what I did and it worked. I will pray for you! xoxo hang in there!

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thanx sissy...!
will update..

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should i tell dis to ma fiance?

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hmm i'm not sure about that one sorry. It really depends on your relationship. If you think he will angry and further anger the other boyfriend it may not be a good idea but if you think he will be understanding and helpful towards you then I would tell him. sorry I can't give much of an answer

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plz dont feel sorry...! dese much is enough 4 me.... thanx alot..

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anytime feel free to message me at anytime if you need to. I'll always try my best to help

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thanx alot sissy...!!
will be in touch..
xoxo

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are you 18 yet? If so, you are a legal adult and can run away.

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i wanna obey ma parents.

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What did he black mail you with. It all depends on that. Message me!!

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blackmail is related to ma cousin and her friend.
i dint oppose him since i care for the prestige of ma uncle's family.

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I don't think you should ever give into blackmail. the truth will come out eventually. And you will regret all the days you spent trying to hide it with him. When you could be with someone you love.

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yeah... what i did is wrong i realize.... now i wanna come out of dat..... am struggling

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You have control of your own life. You need to know that.

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yeah.. i know. . but i fell into this pit... wanna come out of it

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:/ sorry

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