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How can I convince my best friend to dump his sick and bitchy girlfriend?

My best friend is seeing a b**** whose completely sick in mind as well as the most selfish animal on the planet: she is completely abusing my friend who's actually blindly in love with that psycho. what would be the best way to show and convince my friend that he is making a very big mistake as to taking care of that low-life b****?
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ya dont
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Posted Jun 7th, 2009 at 2:16PM
Nothing you can say will change his mind, so save your energy.

Truly, love is blind.
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 12:50PM
Usually I'll just come right out and say it to a guy friend, but they never listen.

So, here's the thing. Play it cool, don't let him complain to you when she treats him badly, and eventually he'll dump her himself. If he doesn't, that's his problem. Don't get too involved in this because it could get messy. (Just a heads up because I've been accused of way too many love triangle situations which never happened.)
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 12:01AM
wow! angry much?
I think all you can do is be a good friend to him. If he he ask you for your advice, then offer it. A best friend is someone who supports you and is there for you as you walk through life, through the good and bad....
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 12:51PM
He's an adult, and you need to allow him to make his own mistakes.

Unless she's physically abusing him or cheating on him, as hard as it is to accept, it's really nobody's business but theirs.

You don't have to like her, but if your friend loves her, you do have to tolerate her, until the relationship comes to its natural end.
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 3:02AM
Your friend is beyond reason because he's blind to the facts. I would just get rid of the ***** girlfriend. Seriously. No, not seriously. Seriously not seriously. Don't do anything illegal. Figure out the *****'s weakness though and use it to manipulate her. And don't call ******* *******. That's misogynistic as ****.
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 2:58AM
uhmmmm so ppl just say ehh u dont do anything about it kuz love is blind
well u wanna help him kuz ur his frend xD u shud just support him kuz dats wat frends are for. u might somehow end up with dat ***** between da 2 of u and she might ruin ya guys frendship so.. im not helpful =.=
but dont do anything stupid
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:29AM
I just got out of one of these situations. Tell him the longer he hangs on, the harder the end and break-up will be. Once a women gains control in a relationship, there is no stopping. He has to move on and show this women that there are others out there that will appreciate him. This will give him confidence, which he does not have. You do not know how much I wish I got rid of my ex long time before she dumped me. She was controlling and treated me like sh** and I took it. Now she left and feel like a doormat with no self-esteem.
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Posted Jun 3rd, 2009 at 11:43PM
butt out, give her enough rope and she'll trip, he might be into it
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Posted Jun 3rd, 2009 at 11:55PM
You can't. You are not the one in love.
Trust me I tryed getting my daughter to dump the losser she was with, but she had to figure it out for herself.
so does your friend.

sorry
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 1:06AM
You can't convince him to break up with her.
You could try to tell him straigh up, but chances are, he wont listen.
So your just going to have to let him make his own mistakes, so he can learn from them.
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 1:21AM
LOVE IS BLIND!....DO NOT EVEN TRY!!...


ARE you JEALOUS that they have a Life?

TOGETHER!!
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 1:35AM
Unfortunately, you can't. This is something your friend has to figure out on their own. Until then, continue to be a good friend, and give them advice and comfort when needed. :)
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Posted Jun 4th, 2009 at 4:31PM
The next time he complains to you say what bummer. Key word "Empathy" Say what are you going to do about it?
give him options and then at the end say good luck with that. He will start to think for himself.
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Posted Jun 5th, 2009 at 5:05AM
You can't. Love is one of the strongest emotion on Earth, if not the strongest.

I'm sorry to tell you this but the only thing you can do for your friend is to be there if/when the girlfriend hurt him and/or dump him. Be a friend then, give him support, give him a shoulder to cry on, anything. But right now, don't hurt him by openly hating someone he cares about.
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